Could i have hiv

[Lm051413]

Hello 28 year male about a week ago i had unprotected sex with an female friends ive known for years, the other day she visitme and we end up having sex in her car i ripped or tear my frenelum cause im uncircumcised during sex didnt noticed the blood cause it was dark, we had sex for like a minute because i didnt want to continue without protection. Dont know her hiv status she said shes clean could i have hiv from her

[Lm051413]

Even though my female friend gets upset and tells me i have nothing to stress about

[Chima7]

Because she knows she doesn't have HIV which means that you would not have been infected by her. If you want to keep her as a friend then I suggest you stop harassing her about this and get some counseling to help you with this irrational fear.

[Lm051413]

Went to my dr two weeks after having sex with my female friend got tested everything came out negative for hiv1 hiv-2  he told me everything looks good he doesnt feel much is gonna change but to get tested at 3 months im a little relief but still stressed out

[Lm051413]

Yea im gonna go test just really stressed thinking im hiv + talked to my friend she said she hasnot have sex for about 6 months before me she showed me her negative results but im still stressing

[LRossi]

If she is telling you the truth (most people don't lie about things like HIV) and she did not have sex for 6 months and had a test 3 weeks ago, then she is definitely HIV- whatever the test she did (3rd or 4th generation, standard or rapid)... If she is HIV-, you cannot be HIV+.

[Lm051413]

Im stressing like crazy i bought a oraquick test at the pharmacy 7 days after exposure came out negative still stressing, I talked to my friend she  said she had gotten checked a 3 weeks before she was with me and shes clean, she has not had sex with anyone else that she has two kids and wouldnt put me in danger, she told me if i wanted she would test again to show me since i have to wait 3 weeks. Im going crazy here cnt work cnt sleep cnt concentrate ive never had unprotected sex and im going crazy over this one slip up please heeeeelp

[LRossi]

Oraquick after 7 days is useless... It is only reliable after 12 weeks. And even then 92% reliable.

If the test your friend did is a duo test (Ab/Ag), there is a good chance she is HIV- as 3 weeks is already quite precise to determine if a person is HIV+ or not. It is not definitive and not as precise as a 28 days test but it is already an excellent indication of her status.

As RubyWitch indicated, I would test at 28 days with a duo (Ab/Ag) test. It will be an excellent indication of your status. CDC recently changed its recommendations and says that you do not have to wait 12 weeks, 6 weeks is considered conclusive if a duo test is done (not an antibody test only like POC rapid test).

[Lm051413]

Thanks

[RubyWitch]

You're welcome and we wish you the very best outcome. Be strong

[RubyWitch]

You had unprotected sex, which is a risk and with a cut/torn frenulum, your risk was most likely higher.

You need to test at 28 days post this experience with a 4th generation DUO test.
This test will not be conclusive, but will give you a good indication of your status.
Your 12 week confirmatory test will give you 100% conclusive results.

[Lm051413]

Help im stressing like crazy over this