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Did it again!!

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I don’t want to write a full article justnlike the last time
As I have written in my last post, I haven’t had sex since ages ago.
And I really became depressed after the many tests I’ve had and zero sexual life
I’ve been masturbating 3 times a day for years now and this caused me to call a sex worker today
I’ve booked a 2 hour session and ejaculated 3 times
Changed condoms every 10-15 mins approx

since it happend I felt relieved that I finally had sex like every normal adult;
At the same time I know that i’ll be testing a dozen of tests and probally won’t have sex for years to come from the anxiety that is growing up again inside me since the encounter 5 hours ago.

Is their any chance where I could get infected through these 2 hours? Changed multiple condoms and checked them all ( latex - didnt rupture - isnt expired) i touched here vagina multiple times but no kissing or oral sex
It was just a 2 hour protected intercourse
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Since we have no idea what you actually did with the sex worker, the only thing to comment on is that you clearly don't have an HIV problem you have an anxiety problem.  There is an anxiety forum on here.  I would recommend, given how long this has gone on according to your post, that you seek therapy with a psychologist who specializes in the treatment of anxiety if you haven't already done that.  Also, ever go out of dates?  You might find being with someone you actually get to know might tamp down some of your anxiety as well as meet some of your needs.  Is your anxiety also preventing you from doing that?  Because again, if you have an anxiety problem but you keep trying to fix an HIV problem you don't have, things will stay as they are.  Peace.
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Didn’t do anything out of what I’ve written
Straight intercourse with (no kissing - oral - anal ) 2 hours and changed condoms every now and then.
Should I test or just forget it?
Forget it.  There is NO point in testing for a disease you were never exposed to.
CurfewX Appreciation your response
Does this mean even if it was a long protected vaginal intercourse I shouldn’t get an STD panel test for this specific encounter?
And tbh I’m bad at dating
So If i continued sex with csw’s while using a condom would protect me from HIV?
Protected intercourse, using a condom that does not VISIBLY fail, is zero risk for HIV, every time.

If you have questions about STDs, please ask in that forum: https://www.medhelp.org/forums/STDs---STIs/show/98
You can catch any cold or flu they have and that is a high risk.
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No risk.
I understand your fear of contracting any dieases. But i feel that you are overdoing. Please dont let this fear ruin your sex life/your life.
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Thank you for answering
Even if the intercourse was prolonged? (2 hours)
What about other sti’s? I checked her she did not have any visible sores of warts
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