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Did my condom break?

Please help me...

A week ago i had anal sex with another man. I was top.

We used a condom for all intercourse.

He was on top of me but when he came off the condom had slipped up so that a few inches (the tip etc) were not on the penis head but off it. The head was covered but the ring was about 2 inches away from the base of the penis.

I did not ejaculate during or after sex so could not tell if it was leaking.

I was masturbating after sex - with my penis in the condom (still with the tip and a bit more off the top of the head). And i removed the condom after (without ejaculating).

If the condom broke during sex, would i know -i'm scared because the tip and a bit more was off the head so could not tell if it split.

Do you think if it broke that it would be noticebale and that the masturbation would have made it completely fall apart - this did not happen. It seemed in one piece when i took it off - but again, i did not look at the tip etc.

Do i need testing?
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split like a banana skin,you would be able to see your penis
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what do you mean hanging off his penis?
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You never had a risk then and yes condom failure is obvious and you would know.It would be hanging off your penis,it pieces.
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yeah, i never saw my penis sticking out - even when masturbating - it was always covered just lower down in the condom.

If the condom broke while inside him and when he got off me, would my penis be bare and sticking out?

this was defo not the case

Are condom breaks really obvious? like does the condom just fall apart leaving a ring around your penis and lose bits of condom?

would a broken condom have fallen apart when i took it off?  becuase it remained in one piece when i took it off


thankyou


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If the penis head was always covered as you put it then you had no risk.
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Everyone says that wen a condom breaks, it completely falls apart leaving the ring and loose bits of condom.

This was not the case.

When he got off me (he was riding me), the tip of the condom and a bit more was 2 inches loose off my penis head - but the penis head was always covered just lower down.

The condom did not shred, as i took it off and it defo did not fall apart.

But do you think it is likely that the top of the condom was broken but only the top and i did not notice it because it was off my penis.

Does this sound likely or would it all have fallen apart espc. with me masturbating with it on after.


Getitiright, teak or lizzie please let me know
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If it broke it would have been obvious and only you know if it did.If at anytime the head of your penis was unprotected during peneration then you had a risk.
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