I can confirm the reassuring replies you have already had both from the HIV interenational expert forum and this forum. I don't understand why you felt you had to ask again.
1) Your test results are 100% conclusive.
2) See your other thread about Candida. It doesn't indicate HIV, and anyway the HIV test results overrule everything else -- exposure history, symptoms, candida, everything.
3) Everybody produces antibodies if they have HIV. If you were infected, both your PCR and antibody tests would have been positive.
Is it "normal that people have all this anxiety?" Absolutly not. You are WAY over-exaggerating.
"Is their any thing else I can do?" If you continue to worry despite all this, I you should seek professional counseling. It isn't normal to remain so fearful after all the science-based reassurance you have had.
Thx a million sorry again