I'm a 30 year old heterosexual, non IV drug using, male who last underwent an HIV test in March 2013 (it was non-reactive). Since that time, I have had 11 encounters with 'escorts' which involved protected vaginal sex. In most of these encounters, I was careful to check the condom myself to see if it was intact post the activity. In a few instances, I asked the escort who confirmed that it was fine.
While there were a couple of encounters where due to a loss of hardness, the condom probably shifted up half an inch from the base of my shaft, in all cases, my urethra was covered.
I'll be undergoing an HIV test soon, and have been worried sick recently about whether I put myself at risk through my actions (plus also feeling guilty about not getting tested in 5 years). I therefore, had a few questions based on some scenarios that I ran in my head.
Q1: For encounters where I didn't check the condom myself, if no condom break was seen or felt, can I be sure it was intact at the end of an activity? Or can there be tears in the condom that are big enough to let vaginal fluids in while not being noticeable.
Q2: For encounters where I did check the condom, I did so by performing a water test. Is there a risk that I could have exposed myself to the virus while performing these water tests?
Q3: 4 days prior to one of the occasions, I had cut myself on the penis shaft while trimming my pubic hair. While I'm confident that the cut had healed (or at least scabbed), this was one of those incidents where my due to a loss in hardness, the condom shifted up half an inch. In this case, the area of the cut was covered but the condom ring had moved up pretty close to it. Any risk from this particular incident?