First time sex, Could i get some sort of disease? + Pregnancy question..

[itsgeorgecol]

Hi!
5 Days ago I had sex with a girl who I met online, It was quick but unprotected and I came inside her.
Only reason for doing this is because she has told me she is on the pill!

After having sex with her, I dont 100% trust her with the pills, what if she doesn't take them correctly?
I have told her that and she said she is on the pill for over a year now and that she's been with other guys and they came in her and everything was okay..but i still worry?

Another question is..Its my first time..never had sex before and when we did it, it was quick but unprotected...Am I at risk of HIV or anything like that? Also she has told me she never got tested for anything..

I am worried sick about everything and I always feel tired and weak since we had sex!
Also I am circumcised (Just thought i'd say because ive heard it reduces HIV chances)

Should I be worried?

[helplease123456789]

To begin with u had risk in future use condom , test your self as answered ...4 th gen test at 4th week is good and result 99% good ..as test look for anti bodies as 95% of people will develop the an and ag which is most visible be 4-6 week . . test your self ...n use condom in future

[jockojohnson]

james is very knowledgable with testing follow his recommendation at 28 days  .that should get you where you need to be.

[JamesD1991]

Yes.  Get a DUO test.

[itsgeorgecol]

So should I wait 28 days to get tested??

[jockojohnson]

if you have other stds it puts you more at risk obviously there are certain things that increase risk . meeting people online increases risk because you are not the only one she has met unless she happend to be a virgin .just keep in mind when you have sex you are having sex with everyone that person had sex with .so have sex have lots of it but be safe .
does it really matter if it was 5o % or 10% a risk is arisk so dont let your anxiety get you going .

you havent mentioned having symptoms .so dont work yourself up because you will make your own symptoms  of anxiety after all you dont even know if she has it . as a precaution it would be a good idea to test for stds .there are other things that are much easier to contract  they can cause health issues if left in the body for exfended periods .most are easily treatable some are fairly harmless .im confident that you will be fine . but test and let us know how things turn out

[itsgeorgecol]

It was a mistake! didnt mean to do that!...Same as my situation.

[JamesD1991]

You have two of the same threads.  Stick to one

[itsgeorgecol]

I will get tested. But am I at huge risk?

[jockojohnson]

it really dosent sound like there is much to worry about your symyptoms ound like anxiety symptoms but every time you have unprotected sex it puts you at risk .yours is small .vaginal is not a big risk for the man more so for the woman.seeing as it was your first time dosent necessarily lower your risk but each time you are exposed increases your .so  remember use protection and you will not have to go through the anxiety this causes .anyone who is sexually active should test for stds regularly usually every 6 months to a year .since you are not having any noteable symptoms you can take a test at 3 months and it will be conclusive .be well