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Frottage/minimal penetration

hi

Yesterday i made a stupid drunk decision and engaged in an unprotected sexual attempt with a man of unknown status ( i am a male too), he tried to penetrate me after some fingering with no condom on, we tried a few times with no luck since my anus is really tight and i was so tense ( first time for me).

However, i am not sure if there was any penetration (1/4 head at most), and most of the encounter was just frottage and failed attempts with ejaculation outside.

1. What's the risk of this exposure? Given i don't kniw his status and we both are Egyptians living in Egypt
2. I am sexually active and i get tested regularly every 6 months or so...should i test after the window period or is it unnecessairy?

3. Is vigourous/rough frottage risky?

Help! Anxiety is killing me, thanks in advance
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Thanks a lot
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As long as there was no unprotected penetration, there was no risk.
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you don't think there's a possible exposure?
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Thx for your response

1. What worries me is that He tried multiple times over a period of 10 minutes more or less with no luck. Would that make a difference? Or it wouldn't matter?

2. Is precum/semenal fluid on the outside of the anus or around the muscle ineffective?
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1. If he did penetrate you, it is a risk.  However, I wouldn't be too concerned if it was brief.  Plus, you don't even know if he penetrated you.  And that is not something you would miss.

2.  If it were me, I would just test again at my routine test.  However, if you're an anxious person, you could take a DUO test at 28 days.

3. No
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