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HELP.. Sexually Active..
Dear Doctor,
Hope you are ok and everything is fine with you, please excuse me and bare with me because this might take a while.
1. in the last 6 month i've been sexually active like never before, in December i broke up with the love of my life and i had an affair with a flight attendant which was always unprotected oral and vaginal, this relationship lasted for about 3 month on and off.
2. in april i went to a ***** house and i had protected oral and vaginal with 4 different prostitutes after each other.. which was no risk as i believe and hope.
3. in June 2nd i went again to another in red light district Amsterdam window prostitutes and this was IT... i engaged in protected Oral and Vaginal intercourse with MTF transgender (although i didn't know that its MTF) this is because maybe i wasn't educated enough by science can do this. after i finished i found like cum on the condom or i don't know what is that, i removed the condom my penis was very dry as i believe that the condom was intact, i tested the condom with water and it was ok, then there was soap at her place, i washed my penis with soap and detol. and that was it...
4. by the next 4 days i did have a girl (Real one) each day and protected oral and vaginal as well, i tested my condom everytime with water and it was ok and it was intact.
doctor please note the following:
A. 1 week after exposures i slept in the AC and i had a lower back pain, that i fixed with medications and it went away
B. 3 weeks after the exposure, i slept in the AC i woke up and i found my lower back hurts with my right buttocks/thigh/ and sometimes my right testicle only.
C. almost 4 weeks after exposure i experienced sweat while sleeping at night.
can you please elaborate for me what is my risk for each encounter that i had? i am very worried and i want to get married, i don't know what to do, i cant work, i cant eat, i cant do anything.. what is my risk of contacting HIV.. i know i can make a test nowadays after 28 days after exposure but, should i go with it or no...
thank you very much...
Hope you are ok and everything is fine with you, please excuse me and bare with me because this might take a while.
1. in the last 6 month i've been sexually active like never before, in December i broke up with the love of my life and i had an affair with a flight attendant which was always unprotected oral and vaginal, this relationship lasted for about 3 month on and off.
2. in april i went to a ***** house and i had protected oral and vaginal with 4 different prostitutes after each other.. which was no risk as i believe and hope.
3. in June 2nd i went again to another in red light district Amsterdam window prostitutes and this was IT... i engaged in protected Oral and Vaginal intercourse with MTF transgender (although i didn't know that its MTF) this is because maybe i wasn't educated enough by science can do this. after i finished i found like cum on the condom or i don't know what is that, i removed the condom my penis was very dry as i believe that the condom was intact, i tested the condom with water and it was ok, then there was soap at her place, i washed my penis with soap and detol. and that was it...
4. by the next 4 days i did have a girl (Real one) each day and protected oral and vaginal as well, i tested my condom everytime with water and it was ok and it was intact.
doctor please note the following:
A. 1 week after exposures i slept in the AC and i had a lower back pain, that i fixed with medications and it went away
B. 3 weeks after the exposure, i slept in the AC i woke up and i found my lower back hurts with my right buttocks/thigh/ and sometimes my right testicle only.
C. almost 4 weeks after exposure i experienced sweat while sleeping at night.
can you please elaborate for me what is my risk for each encounter that i had? i am very worried and i want to get married, i don't know what to do, i cant work, i cant eat, i cant do anything.. what is my risk of contacting HIV.. i know i can make a test nowadays after 28 days after exposure but, should i go with it or no...
thank you very much...
Thank you very much for your response james,
Do you think that i don't have to worry about testing for the prostitutes that i slept with and worry about the flight attendant.. That actually it was almost like a girl friend?!
Thank u very much i truly respect your opinion and i trust it...
So sorry, but do i face any risk from the protected intercourses as of HIV and other STD's too?!
Thank you,
Do you think that i don't have to worry about testing for the prostitutes that i slept with and worry about the flight attendant.. That actually it was almost like a girl friend?!
Thank u very much i truly respect your opinion and i trust it...
So sorry, but do i face any risk from the protected intercourses as of HIV and other STD's too?!
Thank you,
The only thing you mention that is a risk is the unprotected vaginal sex is number 1. You can test now for a conclusive result on that one.
Everything else was protected so you need not worry about that.
Everything else was protected so you need not worry about that.
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