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To all those who think they are positive but test negative

Dear guys, I have written my story

I had uprotected vaginal back in november, then I had a whole bunch of symptoms typical of HIV, such as lymphodenopathy, low-grade fever, weight loss, hair loss, sweats, rash, the list can be continued forever

I tested like seven times with last-generation elisa up to 8 months, and it always came back negative, i almosy died from depression, while everyone else thought i was insane cuz i didnt believe my test
I had negative PCR DNa at 6 months

But even this didnt help me

So one day I realized that I cant live like this anymore

So a month ago, which makes it 9 montsh after the contact i called the guy I had sex with and I told him about the issue. he was soo freaking scared but said that he didnt have any heath problems. Anyways, the next day he went to the AIDS center and guess what. Absolutely NEGATIVE!!!!

I still have some hetlh problems, like hair loss, thrush, so my body hasnt really recovered from whatever disease I had, the doctors actually found something: listeriosis and yersiniosis, they think that is what I suffered from

Anyways dont make urself desperate like I did, I almost lost my mind for these 9 months

If you have a problem solve it, do whatever will convince u u r negative
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No it still won't, you never use someone else's status to know your own.
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you are right Teak, but if he is your only partner and all the tests of yours get back negative, then it will
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Your partners status will never tell you anything about your status.
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exactly guys, the main issue with people obsessed with hiv is not believing the test result and getting urself stressed. I think half of the health problems I got was due to stress, becuase I literally was killing myself with these thoughts and crying all the time, The best therapy for your symptoms I would suggest is TESTING UR PARTNER)))
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You are 110% HIV NEGATIVE with all those tests,you only needed to test at 3 months.Please believe your results and move on with your life.ONCE AND FOR ALL I WILL SAY IT AGAIN 6 MONTH WINDOW PERIOD IS FALSE AND OUTDATED.There is no such thing as 6 months testing and this is whats caused all this hiv anxiety.
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