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HIV RISK? Unprotected vaginal sex, no ejaculation

I’m female had unprotected vaginal sex twice but my partner did not come inside me ... he claims to have tested recently and is hiv negative what’s my exposure?
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Your safety is in your own hand, I personally don't believe in what people say for everything. Nevertheless, you wouldn't have been here if you didn't doubt your partner at the first place.

Although unprotected sex warrants testing, I don't think you have much to worry about, your partner was most likely HIV negative, we both can agree that not every one around us HIV positive. Also, no ejaculation reduces the risk to a good extend.

Take a test at 28 days from the date of exposure with a IV Gen HIV test. You should be fine.

In the interim, stay away from symptom surfing, thinking about HIV or spending time analyzing your body.

Always insist on condom for protection, use it correctly and consistently to stay away from HIV. You might want to post in the STD forum for related queries.

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Get tested, but I doubt you caught HIV, get checked for other STD’s like Chlamydia or Ghonorrea
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It depends on whether you trust his test claim and when he did it and what kind of test he took. A duo is conclusive at 4 weeks so if he didn't have unprotected in the 4 weeks prior to his test then he is negative. Any other is conclusive after 12 weeks window period.
Another trust option is if he is outside the window period you can get him ot test again now.
According to him he got tested last November and before that he had protected sex in September. He says he has not had a sexual encounter with anyone but me since last September.
You can't get hiv when you use a condom, so if the Sept encounter was his only lifetime vaginal or anal, then he is negative. In that case he wasted his time testing, and you would be wasting your time worrying that he isn't negative.. If you don't trust him then just take any test after 12 weeks but I wouldn't worry while waiting.
The September encounter was not his only encounter though but it was his last encounter  before we got together ...
I told you that you can't get hiv when you use a condom, so his Sept encounter is irrelevant. There is no purpose bringing it up again because it wasn't an hiv encounter risk.

You need to find when his last UNprotected was.  If it was 3 months before his test then it doesn't matter what test he took, because the test is conclusive.
"A duo is conclusive at 4 weeks so if he didn't have unprotected in the 4 weeks prior to his test then he is negative. Any other is conclusive after 12 weeks window period. "
Hello, I spoke to my partner and he said his last unprotected encounter was back in 2016 he has also agreed to get retested.
Last unprotected in 2006 and then tested in Nov 2018 negative. so he is conclusively negative, Nothing else to say because there is no purpose in him testing again whether you believe him or not. Your situation is straightforward; if you don't believe his claims then do your own test as I explained on Mar 6.
Hello, so my partner took the test hiv 4th GeN antigen and antibody test and it said non reactive >0.9 . However there’s a portion that shows (Serum) - Reactive .015 ... does this mean that his hiv negative?
Non reactive is all you need to know. Move on and enjoy your life because you are safe.
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