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Dear Sir/Madam,
I had an incident last night. The sex worker touched her vegina with her finger and then she used the same finger to put the condom. I felt veginal fluid touched my penis through her finger on my penis and condom and infected me. After putting the condom, she did hand job/musterburste me, I never put my penis into her vegina with or without condom. My thinking the condom got connected to her veginal fluid through her finger while putting the condom and infected me. Please provide your opinion.
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Since you are still worried, here is more of the same advice.
This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
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Thanks a lot and appreciate your help. I am relaxed now and deleting the incident from my memory. Thank you
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No risk.  Once the infected fluid comes in contact with the environment, the virus is rendered inactive.  

Transmission only takes place within the body,  below are the  potential HIV risks:

1. Unprotected penetrative  anal or vaginal sex.
2. PWID - Needle sharing.
3. Transmission through blood transfusion. (This is rare as most blood products and blood transfusion are subjected to preliminary screening.)

You do not need to test.
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Thanks for your quick response. I am worried because she touched the penis while putting the condom. She had veginal fluid on her finger while touching the penis and putting the condom. These fluid might have remained inside the condom during ejaculation.
Thanks for your quick response. I am worried because she touched the penis while putting the condom. She had veginal fluid on her finger while touching the penis and putting the condom. These fluid might have remained inside the condom during ejaculation. Please let me know still there is not risk in such situation.
not a risk,u need to have a proper unprotected sex with some one known positive to be in a risk.
Thanks a ton dear Sir. I was totally worried how to have sex with my wife who is joining me in couple of days. I hope I can do sex with my wife freely without condom without putting her on risk.
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