HIV Risk from ******* between thighs

[Veer777]

I recently went to a massage parlor. After the massage the girl offered me a hand job. I was fully naked and she was wearing a short skirt and underwear. During the hand job she lied down face up and asked me to insert my penis between her thighs midway between knee and vagina. she held her legs tight together and I humped in this manner till I ejaculated. I did not use Condom for this. There was no other form of penetrative sex between us.

Am I at risk of HIV from this incident? Do need to get tested. I got tested last month as negative and this is my first sexual contact since then.

[Veer777]

Thanks to everyone for replying to me. You have given me good advice and I need to curb my Anxiety and move on.

[Veer777]

Thanks! You're right I had no risk and I'll move on without worry. I'll not let the anxiety get better of me.

[LIZZIE LOU]

there is a HUGE difference between humping someone's thighs and vaginal penetration.  

you are letting your anxiety create things that you KNOW didn't happen.  

last time here...YOU HAD NO RISK

[Veer777]

Now I've started to think maybe I had penetrated her. But I don't remember doing so. I do remember that that after ejaculation I observed my penis between her thighs below her short skirt. She was wearing her short skirt and I did not notice if she had removed her underwear.

The more I think about it, the more, the more clouded my memory of the event gets and is driving me crazy. Please Help.

[Veer777]

Thanks, I think t's my mind playing games with what ifs?

[Teak]

There is no need to test you didn't have an exposure.

[Veer777]

Sorry for asking again. Maybe its just the guilt but i cannot get peace of mind. Can you categorically rule out need for testing for the incident above?

[diver58]

Yes ! You can resume your normal matrimonial relationship with your wife,,, Be Faithful is the B of ABC of safe sex.

[BeStrong_]

Of course you can. Stay safe :)

[Veer777]

Thanks for your advise. it is such a relief.

So i can safely have unprotected sex with my wife without putting her at risk? I need no testing?

I have learnt my lesson and 100% faithful is the word for me in future.

I suffer from anxiety disorder and this worry is compounding it.

[BeStrong_]

The incident you describe is not an exposure to the virus.

[Veer777]

Penetration was only between the thighs away from the Vagina. Can she have some vaginal fluid on legs which can infect me? Is this sort of sexual activity safe?

[BeStrong_]

If there was no penetration, there was no risk! :)