This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
This is not a risk. HIV is inactivated by air and saliva. Fingering will not transmit the virus nor will oral either given or received. HIV is transmitted by unprotected vaginal or anal sex or sharing of IV drug needles.
Actually ORAL SEX is capable of transmission of HIV the above answers aren’t totally wrong but also are not totally right either. HIV is transmitted in the following ways, FLUIDS: vaginal and anal fluids through the mucus membranes in the body breast milk and BLOOD TO BLOOD. HIV can be transmitted by the following, ACTIONS: ORAL SEX, ANAL SEX, VAGINAL SEX, BREAST FEEDING and SHARING NEEDLES. So technically if you “finger someone that is on their menstrual cycle heavy or unnoticeable and you have and open mouth sore you COULD have HUV transmitted to you. If you give OR receive oral sex and there are open wounds and access for HIV to enter your blood stream it can be transmitted ! It is true that HIV dies outside of the body VERY quickly. Get tested regularly ! Encourage others to test regularly! Know your status! Protect yourself and your partner(s)! I AM LIVING WITH HIV AND I AM AN HIV PEER EDUCATOR.
ANY FLUID THAT CONTAINS BLOOD CAN TRANSMIT HIV!