HIV Risk?

[tomparker]

Hi teak,

  I writing to you out of desperation.I had protected sex  with  a sex worker 2 weeks bac. The condom neither broke or slipped off.
  During intercourse, i rubbed my **** on her outer vagina(with condom om) for sometime and then contniued with inetrcourse.
  After that I immeadiately washed my self.

  1)I am worrried that body fluids from her vagina might have stuck to my body and then transferred to my **** when i washed myself?

  2)how can i be sure that the condom din break ???I couldn see any cuts or tears n the condom..
  When it breaks does the condom tear of completely or just tears of at the tip ???

  Please help me...Iam dying wit anxiety feeelin sick and tired !!!!!....

[aak001]

move on you had no risk. the more you keep think of symptoms the more you will suffer.

[tomparker]

hi Teak,

  I was actually fine after your comments..Its just that now exaclty one month after my protected exposure  my groin seems silglthy swollen and pains slightly while i urinate...This is causin me much anxiety now!!!!i had actually moved on and now this had happneed to me..
My last question i swear
is this  in anyway a HIV symptom ????

thanks a lot for your time and expertise....

[Teak]

Knock it off.

[rebuters]

Just stay calm because anxiety do lead to mimic of HIV symptoms.
And they are a lot of stories about them that they don't meet the criteria of HIV transmission but develop almost all the HIV symptoms.
They tested for every 3 months intervals to get the result which are all negative!

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk. If you cannot accept your status seek professional mental help as to WHY.

[tomparker]

Hi teak/lizzie,

  its been a month after my protected sex encounter..i feel strange and think i am experieci all HIV symptoms..Is this due to anxiety ,iam jus freakin out daily despite your answers..
  Can i be sure i need not test in my case ??Sorry for these questions!!!

[tomparker]

Thank you so much..
I feel lot better now...
Its somethin in my mind which makes me feel sick..
May be iam that guy wit a weak mind....
this was the first time i had sex wit a sex worker and shittin bricks aftre it..All my frens
do prostitutes day in and out...

thank you so mucgh on this regard,
really appreciate your time and patience..
Will try my level best to get this episode out of my mind and move on with life....

[LIZZIE LOU]

FEAR IS NOT FACT!!!!!!  IT JUST DOESNT HAPPEN THAT WAY!

hiv is transmitted through...

unprotected vaginal/anal intercourse
sharing of iv drug works
mother to child

NOW...DO YOU FIT THE ABOVE CRITERIA?????

[tomparker]

Thanks a lot  for sharing this with me ...
One last question sounds very stupid

I am worrried that body fluids from her vagina when i rubbed my protected ****  might have stuck to my
body and then transferred to my **** when i washed body ?
pls provide yout thoughts..Thanks agian in adavnce...
  

[LIZZIE LOU]

a condom tears catastrophically...there is NO way that you would not know it.

now why on earth would you need to test...when you had no risk???  that would be like me going and taking a pregnancy test after having a hysterectomy!!!!!

PROTECTED SEX = NO RISK = NO TESTING NEEDED ! ! ! ! !

[tomparker]

Thanks a lot for the quick response...
i feel much better now..
Two final questions..
1)Do i need a test ? IF yes when ?
2)If a condom tears will it reat completely or in such a way it can go unnoticed??
thanks in advance ..

[Teak]

You didn't have a risk..

[tomparker]

Do i need a testing in this case??/Iam so scared feelin feverish all the time.please help me out.