HIV Test after 11 Years having Oral Gay Sex.

[blackkert]

Hi All,

Last 11 years, I had a gay sex, which include oral and mutual masturbation. but there's no anal intercourse involved. We're 15 years old back then.

What become my concern is, there is one time i gave my partner a blowjob. but not for a long time, say 5-10 seconds. and he not ejaculate in my mouth. I'm worried if he have hiv and got the virus in the precum.

Should i do the blood test after 11 years. I\'m not having any bad health status in this 11 years.

it just I\'m concern that i\'m going transmit the virus if i have any to my future wife. as we\'re planning to get marry next year.


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[gumm_BIH]

You cannot diagnose HIV based on symptoms, only by testing.

[blackkert]

by the way, i have another concern. I'm with my current girlfriend since late 2006. until now, we're only having few sex. around 4 times only. first 3 times, we're having unprotected sex, while the latest sex we have which is october last year, I wearing a condom.

If say my gf is hiv+ carrier ( i pray a lot that she is not, as we're going to get marry next year), what are the odds i getting the infection from her. as i mentioned before, I've never get very sick. and never got any symptom like swollen glands, diarrhea,rash and what not.

As for her, I also never see her getting very sick, or any symptom that saying she's infected.

in the mean time, I'm still going to get the test to get assure.....

[blackkert]

thanks Lizzie Lou for your answer.

Another thing that made me worried is when i remember that my partner back then was used to have many people get his "services for pleasure". we're in boarding school by the way.

[LIZZIE LOU]

break down here:

most 15 year old kids dont have hiv
11 years and you can remember that you had an ulcer. etc ?  dont think so...but it wouldnt matter if you did

what you've read is true.   in LAYMEN'S TERMS...saliva kills hiv.

you had NO risk and do NOT need testing.

[blackkert]

even if i have gum problem or ulcer in my mouth? because i occasionally having problem with my gum and mouth.

But i do read that mouth is not a good condition for the virus to spread and survive as saliva content the enzym who's going to deactivate the virus. is it true? even with the ulcer or cut in the mouth?

[ricky_id]

No need to perform HIV test. Even if he had HIV by then, you wouldn't get it at all.