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HIV and STD risk from sexual encounter with prostitute and vibrator.
Good day to everyone, I have a query that has been killing me since the incident occurred and the professional advice from Dr HHH and other experts on this site would be hugely appreciated as it will greatly put me at ease. I have exams coming up in 2 weeks and i cant focus at all due to my incredibly stupid decision.
1. Two weeks ago i met a prostitute who had sores all over her body. When asked about all the sores she told me that they were all mosquito bites and that i should not worry about it. I even phoned her afterwards and she reassured me that they were mosquito bites, that she regularly gets tested and that she wouldn't put other people at risk like that. She is quite a well known highly regarded escort who even had her own website long ago, so that puts me at ease for some reason, but my mind still asks the question what if it was something else other than mosquito bites. Stupidly enough, I went along with what she said. She gave me a body to body massage with oil, (my naked body was in full contact with her naked body and all her sores, some of which were open and she said this was due to her intense scratching of them) so if these sores were some sort of STD or STI, I am surely at a risk for getting this right ?
2. We proceeded to have oral sex and sexual intercourse which was both protected, so I'm not too concerned about that, however my concern is that before we had sex and while my penis had no condom on,(unprotected/bare) she used her vibrator and vibrated it all over my bare unprotected penis, included on the head of my penis and all over the top of the urethra opening of my penis. Now i am unsure if she has used the vibrator just prior to me arriving or if she has washed it before me arriving but would it be possible that I could become infected with HIV or STD's assuming she has used the vibrator about 5-10 minutes before me arriving, and then using it on me in the way that I've described ?
I would really appreciate an answer to my above 2 questions as I need to put my mind at ease so I can focus on my final exams coming up soon. Thank you in advance and thank you for all the amazing work that is done on this website. You people are truly amazing!
1. Two weeks ago i met a prostitute who had sores all over her body. When asked about all the sores she told me that they were all mosquito bites and that i should not worry about it. I even phoned her afterwards and she reassured me that they were mosquito bites, that she regularly gets tested and that she wouldn't put other people at risk like that. She is quite a well known highly regarded escort who even had her own website long ago, so that puts me at ease for some reason, but my mind still asks the question what if it was something else other than mosquito bites. Stupidly enough, I went along with what she said. She gave me a body to body massage with oil, (my naked body was in full contact with her naked body and all her sores, some of which were open and she said this was due to her intense scratching of them) so if these sores were some sort of STD or STI, I am surely at a risk for getting this right ?
2. We proceeded to have oral sex and sexual intercourse which was both protected, so I'm not too concerned about that, however my concern is that before we had sex and while my penis had no condom on,(unprotected/bare) she used her vibrator and vibrated it all over my bare unprotected penis, included on the head of my penis and all over the top of the urethra opening of my penis. Now i am unsure if she has used the vibrator just prior to me arriving or if she has washed it before me arriving but would it be possible that I could become infected with HIV or STD's assuming she has used the vibrator about 5-10 minutes before me arriving, and then using it on me in the way that I've described ?
I would really appreciate an answer to my above 2 questions as I need to put my mind at ease so I can focus on my final exams coming up soon. Thank you in advance and thank you for all the amazing work that is done on this website. You people are truly amazing!
This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
I have no idea what her sores were but it has nothing to do with hiv so you need to move on from those theories you listed.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
I have no idea what her sores were but it has nothing to do with hiv so you need to move on from those theories you listed.
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Thank you very much AnxiousNoMore. I feel so much lighter after seeing this response. You and all the other professionals on this site are just the best. I appreciate all of you.
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