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HIV exposure risk

I have another question regarding another encounter I had recently. 
There is a friend of mine. Before getting physical with her, i got her tested for the below.
Anti HIV 1&2 - Non reactive - ( Method used - Fourth generation ELISA test to detect the p24 antigen and HIV 1 and HIV 2 Antibodies using Abbott Architect immunodiagnostic system using CHEMILUMINESCENCE Technology patented as CHEMIFLEX )
Anti HCV - Non reactive
HbsAg - Non reactive
V.D.R.L - Non reactive
When we got physical, her vagina got real wet and sloppy. I gave her head and sucked her for good 10 to 15 mins. During the process, i did insert my tongue inside her vagina. Afterwards, i rubbed my **** on the outside of her vagina on her genitals while it was wet with her vaginal secretions for about 5 mins. After this, i inserted my penis inside her vagina for about 10 to 15 seconds but as she squirmed with pain, i removed it. After this nothing more was done. During all this, i didn't use condom at all. Do i have anything to worry about for HIV infection?
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the tests done on 14th March'14 also came out negative for her. its was 4th generation ELISA duo test which looks for both p24 antigen and antibodies to hiv-1 and hiv-2 antibodies. one thing i havent mentioned is that we r in Pakistan. should i have any concern for HIV??
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Keep trolling you know all your posts will be deleted. Seek professional mental help also.
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Please your input sir.....
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Dear Guru Teak.

Please advise.
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Dear Teak.

I tricked her by saying that her tests have come as being on the borderline and that she is not safe and if she is hiding something. I salute you man....... you really are an expert. She has told me now that her last encounter with another person was in the end of Oct'13 which was unprotected oral sex both giving and receiving and protected anal sex, there was no vaginal sex. The tests I made her taken were done on 11th Feb'14. Tomorrow. i.e. 14th March'14 she is doing to have the tests done again. Was the tests done earlier conclusive or the ones to be done tomorrow be carried out?
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Can't help people that won't help themselves. Good luck to you.
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Sir. My main concern is that though i got her tested once last year and once this year, and also she was tested for her employment, does it still pose a risk that i might have been infected and that too for a short interval of 15 to 20 seconds as described above? I am actually scared because after this incident, i had unprotected sex with my wife the very next day who is breast feeding out child. Though from that time i have kept myself away from her.
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Then why are you even posting?
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Yes this is what she told me and as per my previous experience with her, she is honest and straight forward as she is a friend of mine, not a girl friend. And the news about her tests being done for the Bank Employement was shared with me couple of months before we got physical this time. About a year back, we tested her for the same and it came out negative as well though that time we only hugged and shared kisses and nothing else was done.
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That is what she told you? Were you with her?
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The last unprotected sex she had with someone was over a year ago. Couple of months before this testing, she had all these tests done for Bank Employment and Insurance cover which all came out good.
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If she had unprotected sex with you then you don't have any idea when she had her last unprotected sex. Her test won't tell you anything about your status.
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Dear Sir.

Before getting physical with her, I got the below HIV test done for her and it came out non-reactive.

Anti HIV 1&2 - Non reactive - ( Method used - Fourth generation ELISA test to detect the p24 antigen and HIV 1 and HIV 2 Antibodies using Abbott Architect immunodiagnostic system using CHEMILUMINESCENCE Technology patented as CHEMIFLEX ).

Should i be concerned and need to get tested???
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Then you test.
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Dear Teak.

Thanks a lot. I really appreciate your reply. So, I wasn't at risk despite "Inserting my penis inside her vagina for about 10 to 15 seconds but as she squirmed with pain, i removed it. It didn't go all the way in either rather almost half went in but it was without wearing condom."?  
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HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions; therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

HIV is transmitted by;
Unprotected penetrative anal and/or vaginal sex
Sharing works with other IV drug users
Mother to child
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Dear Teak.

You are right Sir. I am aware that HIV is not transmitted through oral sex. In this particular case, i am concerned because of below things:

1. Rubbing me penis on her genitals while it was wet and sloppy with her vaginal secretions for about 5 mins.
2.  Inserting my penis inside her vagina for about 10 to 15 seconds but as she squirmed with pain, i removed it. It didn't go all the way in either rather almost half went in but it was without wearing condom.

I really appreciate the wonderful work you are doing here sir and rest assured am not trying to waste your precious time in any way. I am asking you this because I am really tensed.
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Go back an read any of your oral sex questions. You are already aware that HIV is not transmitted by oral sex.
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Dear Teak.

I am well aware of the warning but this is not the same question you replied earlier and neither is it about the same encounter.
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* Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusively negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to action by MedHelp. Conclusively negative results or a no-risk situation will be based upon the criteria established by MedHelp’s doctors. Action will be taken as follows:
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