HIV prevention

[healthconcern101]

Dear Dr.

My question is simple, but I can't wait to hear from a professional about it. This happened 48 hours ago



I went to a stripclub. I am 29, m, straight guy.

The girl was old around 45+. She gave me lap-dance. I was fully dressed (boxer+jean) during whole period while she was nude. While performing lap-dance over me, I liked/sucked her nipples, I did not feel any fluid/milk/anything else coming from it, but not 100% sure because at that time I was not very aware.  



There was no sexual intercourse. Later I was nude and the girl was nude too our genitals touched may 5- 10 sec (on her anus and vagina) 3 to 5 times



I was very much concerned about std, however, now after searching the forums I am scared. My knowledge was hiv transmit from (1) unprotected sex (2) sharing needles/drugs (3) mother to child.



Questions:

1- Is sucking a woman 's nipple by a man and if some fluid was sucked will HIV transmit?

2- Should I test, If I suck (no to very little fluid, as far as I remembered) for very small interactions (4-5 times consisting of 5-15 sec) for any std/hiv? (the nipples seems to be al-right, but again not 100% sure)

3- My penis touched and rubbed her thighs, her vigina and her anus for very small interaction (unprotected) (4-5 times consisting of 5-10 secs) (no intercourse) Is it possible HIV could transmit and should I test? (not ware if there as any fluid on her vigina or anus but I am assuming I had percum) (I believe she had some fluid on her vagina)

4- The girl, seems to serving multiple customer before she came to me. I do not know her HIV status.



I need confirmation from you pls



1- To be safe do I start PEP?

2- Should I test for hiv/std?

3- Am I too concerned for some this that not an issue?

[JamesD1991]

Again, you had no risk

[healthconcern101]

would like to add:

I went back to sleep woke up again around 5am and my hand was numb. I thought it was may be the way I slept but I just had to ask?

What should be my next step?

1. Should I stop worrying , and move on?
2. Should I Be careful and try to identify each and every symptoms?

Very curious!

[healthconcern101]

Sorry another follow up question.

I was sleeping last night and after an hour I suddenly woke up around 2am, and my face and neck was sweating. Is this a sign of HIV symptoms (I read this is the early stages symptoms)? It is almost 3 days after I encountered the club incident. I am really worried.

[JamesD1991]

This is an HIV specific forum. But for #3, I can tell you the answer is no

[healthconcern101]

Thank you for your advise and answer, I have some more follow up questions:

1- My penis touched and rubbed her thighs, her vagina and her anus for a very small interaction (unprotected) (4-5 times consisting of 5-10 secs) may be less  (no intercourse) Is it still possible STD diseases could transmit just in 2-3 touches each less that 8 secs?

2- Should I test for STI or not required? If yes when should I test? (not ware if there was any fluid on her vigina or anus but I am assuming I had percum) (I believe she had some fluid on her vagina)

3- Is there anything I can do to reduce the infection like cleaning?or take antibacterial? Eat better? to prevent incase there was any STI involved?

Really worried now

[JamesD1991]

Nothing you mention is a risk for infection as you had no unprotected penetration