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HIV risks

Ok, I have started experimenting with men---and usually only under the influence----I have had some experiences I will list my risk instead of getting into a lengthy story.

Fingering with cut on cuticle--AIDSMEDS AND others say no risk--I fingered---noticed fresh cut after
Pressing my bare penis up against anus no penetration---AIDSMEDS also says no risk---
Brief oral I sucked maybe ten seconds---AIDSMEDS no risk
Had a guy penetrate me---not fully--condom came off when he pulled away--dont think he touched me with bare penis
Another attempt---pentration this time partial he came--I felt something wet--but I saw condom on intact and when he removed I checked and no holes.
Another attempt just tip inserted---came in condom---not on or in me but condom fell upon him pulling back

All of these AIDSMEDS say no risk--none zip zilch

I also had an incident where I had actual unprotected vaginal intercourse- AIDSMEDS SAID TEST--she says shes neg---The rest of these happened 33 days---20 days for the last M2M incident and going on 2 weeks for the vaginal----the brief oral one week.

Now I also have read on aidsmeds transmission from female to male is difficult I am circumsized and have decided to not do anything m2m because of the anxiety----This female had cervical Dysplasia before and I learned online lots of women with HIV have this----she is tired of me asking her and swears it has nothing to do with HIV and she was tested for it when she had surgery for it.

Again I am still paranoid---I learned HIV is low in vaginal secretions and high in the cervical area----I know ARS is not a good indicator but for my M2M risk I have not had a single symptom----and I am well passed the mark for the m2m incidents---I want to test for the vaginal---my guilt makes me feel as if I were at risk for the m2m....though many experts say no.


please help
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This isn't the doctor's forum.
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Are you guys counselors on here? I was just wondering---usually a Dr responds....
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480448 tn?1426948538
Your only real risk was the unprotected vaginal...and even that was a low risk.  Testing at 3 months post that exposure will give you conclusive results.

I'm just curious...why would you be ultra careful by using protection during the M2M situations, but not with the vaginal sex?  True, the M2M sex is technically more "risky", but there are never any guarantees with anything if you are not protected.

You will likely dodge a bullet this time...but from now on...please consistently use protection for ALL sexual encounters.
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277836 tn?1359666174
Guess what we will say the samething but I wont tonight you already know what I will say
Time for you to forget about HIV
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