Hello, I just joined you. I wanted to ask about an incident that happened to me. I'm sorry for my bad english. I had sex with an escort. The date is August 29. Only unprotected genitalia and apposition. I don't know how long this took. A kiss took place. I suspect my partner may have HIV. Now I want to ask you with confidence. Does time matter? Absolutely no penetration. After 3 days of contact, I checked my penis hard and the pain started. No discharge, no burning in urine. An uncomfortable feeling towards the tip and foreskin only. When I got up to the toilet in the morning, there was no pain, then it came back. Is this pain psychological or did it occur after a strict control? I have a wife, I feel guilty. Is testing necessary for such contact? Should I have unprotected sex with my partner? Even if this genital frottage, rubbing and insertion is for a long time, is it possible to transmit HIV by contact of vaginal fluid with my penis and urethra? Now penile pain continues. It's been 8 days today and I have left neck pain. No other symptoms. I am very stressed and anxious. I was sure it was just frottage and apposition the night of sexual contact. But. Now I'm thinking about it again and I don't know if it's short dipping. I was drunk. Would I know if it was dipping? Is this just anxiety? Could penile pain 3 days later and left neck pain 8 days later be HIV symptoms? I will test HIV RNA and VIDAS HIV DUO ULTRA on day 14 just to be sure. How reliable is it? Finally, if there was a fungus in my genital area before sexual contact, would this pose a risk?