Dr,
On 8 july 2010, I do a very stupid things. I am having sex with a sex worker. This is my first time having sex with sex worker.
This is my condition:
We doing protected sex but she provide the condom. Im not sure what is the brand but i think it is Durex.
After that I ask her to do oral sex on me without protection about 5 minute until I cum inside her mouth. I am afraid if before me, she is been given oral sex to other customer and cum inside her mouth and maybe some still there inside her mouth that would transfer to me through her mouth...we also do a deep kissing about 1 minute.
When i ask her to perform oral sex on me, first she offer to do it with condom but stupidly i ask her to perform without condom.
A week after the exposure, i am having symtom of hiv which i read from google which is i think is stupid didnt help at all. After 2 week I go for blood test and the result is negative.
After i go for the test, I hv been working in qatar in construction site work with cement and chemical liquid. After go back to my home town, my hand feel pain and is like turning to red... when I rub my hand it easy turning to red and will dissapear in 30 minute maybe. I also having a diarrhea and sore throat and cough. This diarrhea last fo 1 week and stop and come again but only for short period (1 day -3). I also not feel good in my throat. I also lost my weight....i think until now I lost 5 kg..from 93kg my real weight. I lost my appetite to eat.
On 5 week 5 days, i go for another blood test for HIV1&2/Hep/Siphilis but all came out negative.
My Question is:
1) what is my risk?
2) Is all the symtom i got is becouse of HIV symtom?
3) Is the test on 5 week 5 days result is a good indicator of not having HIV or not?
4) Is it safe to have sex with my wife with condom protected and kissing with her?
Please help me Dr and thank you.