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Had Protected Vaginal sex with sex worker

I am an idiot age 23yrs. Yesterday like a fool I slept with sex worker. She is not an Escort but a divorced HW and she operates from her own house to earn her living. We didn't kissed, she started the act with Protected Oral sex it was just a min. after that I had Vaginal intercourse with condom intact, it lasted just a min. There was no bleeding nothing. After intercourse I removed the condom in the bathroom and checked it whether it was damaged during the act. Thankfully it was fine. In the whole act, more than me she was very safe and didn't even allow to kiss nor allowed to touch her Vagina. Her skin was perfectly fine and she is very healthy!
Though this was my first time sex with a sex worker, I am dam dam worried and tensed. What if I have caught HIV or any STD?
I did ask her whether she checks regularly, she did said Yes she also messaged me some of her recent Blood reports coz I was so worried that I didn't slept yesterday. She has already said me 100 times that she is not infected with HIV  and she keeps checking.
The more I search Google the more I get Tensed! I am 100% sure the whole act was perfectly safe but I am worried coz I had sex with unknown partner, yes it was protected but still I am worried
I know to get an HIV test we have to wait for 3months but at present even one minute is terrifying forget 3months!

Please Help me, I really don't want to die

PS please forgive me for my English, I speak Spanish
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12438609 tn?1451979018
A condom is made of latex material. There is no possibility of it having tiny ruptures as a force would tear the condom which is visible to human eye. For example a balloon, blow it and prick it with a needle. The balloon would burst. Now check the balloon, you would see a big tear but you actually pricked a balloon with a tiny needle hole. Please go back to the receptionist and educate her on this and save other patients from anxiety!
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Thank you for your prompt reply!
I am just praying that I am HIV Negative!
12438609 tn?1451979018
An intact condom will never give you HIV. you are safe and you were not at any risk of HIV or other STD's coz your act was to the point and 100% protected.
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Thanks for your respone!
Do you recommend HIV testing, I met my doctor today and explained him the whole scenario, he said no need to test your are safe. He has 20yrs of experience in this field. He also said based on his experience chances are Nil. But his receptionist made me tensed she said what if condom had some hole which may not be visible to your naked eye? Dam
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Thank you iommi for your response. This was my first sexual encounter, before this act I was Virgin, hence I am worried.
Anyways, I met her today and because I am so tensed she did HIV test two days back to calm me down.
Her results were HIV negative.
I know it takes 3months to detect HIV but she said she is ready to do it after 3months also and she is confident her results will be Negative.
Now what you think?
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13276481 tn?1451146767
"I met my doctor today and explained him the whole scenario, he said no need to test your are safe".
You can trust what your Dr. is saying and what alpha_index9 has told you.
No need to test.
No need to search the web and fuel your anxiety.
You were smart to wear a condom.
Her policy, "she was very safe and didn't even allow to kiss nor allowed to touch her Vagina".
This woman is very cautious about how she goes about her business.
Move on and trust what you've been told.
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what makes you think you have anything?
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Im worried that I could have aquired HIV as some condoms are not 100% safe
But the one which I used was Durex Latex Condom
1340994 tn?1374193977
Sounds fine.  I wouldn't worry.  
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