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Handjob with vaginal fluid risk of HIV transmission?

40 days back I was encountered with sex worker (status unknown)  she give me handjob for few mints, then she went for URINATE nearby her bed and washed her vagina with  one mug of water using her hand and again touched my penis with same hand ( MIGHT BE SOME VAGINAL FLUID OVER HER HAND ) After that she do protected blow job with condom until I off.

I am scared  of
1) after washing of her vagina with water using her hand and touched my penis with same hand  ( weather she wash her hands or not I am not sure)

2)     is  only pour of water over hand is sufficient to kill the HIV??

2)     what is my risk?? for HIV transmission?

3) was PEP warranted??  I have taken 28days pep
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As an adult, the only risks for HIV are:
1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users.

If you don't do either of the two activities I mentioned above, you will NEVER have to worry about HIV.   In the 40 year history of HIV, no one has contracted HIV from fluid outside of the body. HIV is inactivated in water, air, saliva - it is not active ANYWHERE outside of a person's body.  The only exception is an intravenous needle, because the syringe is a vacuum, and the HIV blood is not exposed to the environment.

You didn't need PEP, you don't need a test, and you are HIV-negative as you had zero risk for HIV from contacting vaginal fluid outside of the body.
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Tnx for reply!!  I was concerned of she fingering her self deeply to clean her vagina with water and immediately touch my penis with same finger
It is effectively dead in air so you were wrong to worry about her touching. The doctor that prescribed PEP should be shot for giving you this potentially dangerous medication for a placebo.
Tnx for assurance!!
After touching of my penis she placed a condom on me
And I worried about if some infected vaginal fluid INSIDE THE CONDOM can get entered into my urethra by handjob force,  I Mean upward and downward movement???
Which of the only 2 risks do you feel you had?
Should I need HIV tests??  

Or resume my life without worrying??

Please clarify in detail
You need to clarify an answer to this, instead of asking more questions. Which of the only 2 risks do you feel you had?
Sorry I am not getting you!!
I want to know is handjob with vaginal fluid is really safe??

After how much time HIV get noninfetctious on exposure to air??

Would I need HIV tests??  For this exposure?
Let's make this simple. Scientists have determined there are only 2 ways to get HIV. Which of these only 2 HIV risks do you think you did? "1) having unprotected, penetrative vaginal or anal sex, or
2) sharing IV drug needles with other IV drug users. "

Otherwise you are just making up your own HIV science which is unscientific and illogical to think you can do, so it is not possible for anyone to discuss.
Thanx!! For your valuable comment and reassurance!!!
Totally confused!!!  Many fourem and internet site including THE BODY. COM says I am in risk??
Regarding the inactivation of HIV on exposure to air .  some says 30  sec, some says it takes several minutes!!  to become noninfectious of HIV,  My exposure is within minute, so I am worried!!  Plz reply!!
We rely on the opinion of expert doctors and do not pay attention to other sites claims. Some are wrong and some use theoretical risks that have never manifested in 40 years of HIV history - which is totally useless. Obviously what you did is not a risk for HIV or else people would get it from touching other people's cuts too, but you never read about children getting infected with HIV from playing etc.
If you Google for Death you can find someone who will tell you that you have a chance of dying from anything that you can think of doing in the next 10 minutes. The more you Google the more anxious you will become, so the first step to peace is to quit Googling cold turkey.
You have no medical training so it is unrealistic for you to have so much confidence that you can diagnose disease just from Googling. The choice to Google is yours, but this is an HIV prevention forum and you don't have HIV. Your anxiety is a mental health issue that requires a therapist to deal with. No one can provide the therapy you need from here, so I have finished.
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