18 days ago I went to the strip club with a friend for his birthday and I girl whom I’ve known for awhile. (This girl has repeatedly told me that she gets tested fairly often). We got pretty intoxicated. Before we left the club I got a strippers phone number who said she wanted to hangout at her place after work. When I left I took the girl home that had come to the club with me and had unprotected oral, vaginal & anal sex with her. A few hours later the stripper that I met wanted me to come over, which I did, and I allowed her to perform oral sex on me, and attempted to have vaginal sex with her (unprotected), I say attempted because I was still really intoxicated and at this point was getting tired so it was hard for me to keep it up. I had my penis inside her for maybe a total of 5 minutes or less. The next morning I developed bumps around and on my penis and within a few days decided to get it checked out and discovered I had been infected with HSV-1. Being that I had 2 sexual encounters I can’t say for certain which girl I got it from. 13 days later, 2 of my roommates come down with a terrible flu and test positive for influenza type A, and the next day, 14 days after exposure I woke up extremely sick feeling. High fever, muscle aches, joint aches, loss of appetite, fatigue, etc. I am wondering what are the chances that I actually contracted HIV from either of these two exposures? Or is it more probable that I just had a flu bug. It ya been 5 days since getting sick, 18 days past exposure, and feel almost completely better. While I was sick I had no swollen or painful nodes, no sore throat, no ulcers in mouth, & no rash. I am seriously freaking myself out. I took a oraquick test yesterday (17 days past exposure ) that came back negative and plan to test again at one month, 2 months, and lastly at 3 months. Please help!!! I can hardly sleep at night.