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Hiv anxiety with shemale csw

I had sex 3 different times with 3 different shemale csw,i did use condoms and it remained intact,but recently i started to feel really anxious about what if the condom had some problem that i din't notice or what,or what if it is a cheap condom or not latex condoms... etc.I know that protected sex is safe but still feeling anxious about this,can anyone tell me if my action in the past is really having no risk at all or not?I'm feeling stressful and anxious right now.Thanks so much and sorry for my bad english
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Hi,i have ask those 2 shemale and they both say they don't have any disease and that i was too paranoid.The truth is that i was quite sure i had put on condoms when i have sex(both receptive and insertive)  and at those moment i did not feel any thing not normal at all ,and people all said that if condoms did fail we would have notice.So do you think that i'm too paranoid to wondering whether the condom was failed or not?And i know that i should not worry because i had protected sex but then recently i figuring out some white bump thing under my tounge,which makes me scare again.Do you think this had any thing related to hiv at all?Or it is due to my stress too much?
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You say you are too paranoid to figure out what you did, so nothing I can do to figure it out either.
Symptoms prove nothing so HIV doctors don't diagnose from symptoms and you shouldn't waste your time doing it either..
Hi bro,just wanna say that i had test,the first one is at 8 week and the second one is at 9 week,both 3rd generation and the result is negative.Do you think i should do another test at 12 week or this is conclusive enough?thanks so much .
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Hi,so sorry for asking again but the problem is i having sex with a prostitute today ,using condom for oral sex and anal sex,when doing anal sex she use some kind of lube its i check it it wrote that this lube is using for sex but i don't know if it can be use for anal or not,but after sex i check the condom carefully and it didn't break,so do you guy think that i have a risk or not and do i need to test?
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You had protected sex which is not a risk.
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Hi bro,just wanna say that i had test,the first one is at 8 week and the second one is at 9 week,both 3rd generation and the result is negative.Do you think i should do another test at 12 week or this is conclusive enough?thanks so much .
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Yes, you've tested conclusively negative.  We wish you the best.
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Three different csw,three different times,i did oral and then i do insertive anal and then they will do that to me,i did use condom and so did they,do you think if there are any problem to the condom when they do insertive anal sex to me and i didn't notice?In my mind i kinda know that i have had protected sex and that means no exposure = no risk but still i can't get rid of the feeling about what if something happen...I'm kinda really really anxious and stressful about this.
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If you don't know if the condom failed you don't know if you had a risk.

You can test if it is bothering you after reading the below.
I would think they would say something if the condom came out in tatters which is what would happen, but am just guessing that they would tell you. 4th generation test is conclusive after 28 days.
Oral is zero risk so it is only anal or vaginal unprotected that can be a risk and only the head has to be protected.
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No because if a condom fails it goes down the seam and makes a big visible tear. if you used lambskin which are expensive and hard to find you had a risk but a CSW would never pay extra for that, if they were a csw, btw..
So provide more details, plz.
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