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Hiv from mutual masterbation?

HIV from Mutual Masterbation? I actively connect with guys online to masterbate with them. I don’t know any of these guys hiv statutes. Is it possible that I could get hiv from having these guys jerk me off? I am particularly worried about pre-*** from their hands getting into my urethra? Please help as I have Ben having sore throat, what feel like swollen nodes (my doctor said they are not swollen) muscle pain, and extreme anxiety
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366749 tn?1544695265
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Mutual masturbation is a Zero Risk activity. HIV does not transmit through this act, no matter what "ifs and buts" you bring to the table. Your risk never existed. Symptoms you mentioned, have nothing to do with HIV infection
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Thanks so much for your quick reply. Can I have some more clarity on how there is no risk if some of the other persons semen or pressmen touches the tip of my penis? This whole ordeal has given me crippling anxiety
This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. Doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either. The above HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
"..(my doctor said they are not swollen) muscle pain, and extreme anxiety."The fact doc said it isn't swollen yet you are reporting it here as swollen indicates your imagination is getting the better of your reasoning because you are so focused on your hiv theory. Stop examining your body cold turkey and stop googling hiv symptoms cold turkey and see if all your "ARS" disappears - due to the miracle cure of not worrying.
20801659 tn?1520443393
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HIV is only spread by direct and immediate contact. Mutual masturbation is not any of those things, as sexual secretions have been exposed to air before getting in tough with your urethra. When two or more people masturbate each other, it is normal to have sexual secretions on their bodies and genitals. But, in 40 years there has never been a single case of HIV transmission that way.
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