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I had protected anal sex with a freelance ladyboy, chances of HIV?

So basically I am in Thailand,  Pattaya and was out drinking last night,  I managed to pick up this ladyboy who I thought was female but anyways she takes me to her place , and she waps out a dick to my amaze,  me being very intoxicated thought **** it and already horny as ****.  So she puts a condom I sucked for like 2secs then thought nah so I let her give me anal even tho this was my first time it was quite painful and still feeling the pain 30 hours later not incredible pain but enough to cause discomfort(is this normal for first timers+how long should pain last),  anyways she ****** me for a bit she never got to deep inside me it was to painful so we switched and I gave her anal with a condom, the only thing worrying me she showed me no I'd card I can't remember where I picked her up must of been between beach road and walking street, I know I will have to get tested but I do have small cuts around my anus due to itchyness could this up the chance of contracting HiV, as well as that I don't know what condoms she had , I'm scared they could be lambskin ,luckily she never cummed  or anything. condoms where being used the whole time I asked her if she was clean she obviously said yes I asked several times and got the same answer could she be lieing. And top it all of when I finished cumming in her face I grabbed my clothes and ran life **** without paying her,  any help would be greatly appreciated because I'm worried sick I have HIV or something , and what would be the best course of action for me to do as I'm clueless
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No commercial sex worker would carry lamb skin condoms...they are far more expensive and do not protect the sex worker...it has to be latex for sure...the sex worker uses condoms to protect themselves from you....not to protect you...
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Update basically I went into the shower today and the bell of my penis the skin is like shedding I think this is a clear indication of an std it has happened once before but over a year ago I just washed reguraly and let it be and went back to normal
There is an STD forum for those discussions instead of posting here. Most people here don't know much about STD anyway.
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Completely agree with the answers here, I'd add that lambskin condoms are generally more expensive and less protective than latex and polyurethane ones, so there aren't any reasons for CSW to use them, that would be extremely unlikely.
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Really worried guys I'm young and inexperienced I mentioned if she had condom but she seemed reluctant and casually change the conversation but I was adamant on it also she/he was happy to do cheaper when I bargained from 1000bhat to 300 even tho I ran after and did not pay. we used more than one condom she seemed annoyed could this be because of the price and it was costing her? Based on information,  pentration was minamal as it was first time and too sore but I did penetrate he/she for at least 2mins,  1)what are the odds 1 in 100? 2)It seemed to easy she had her own scooter also could suggest she better off I doubt tho?  3) what should  I do if come back positive,  I have no one to talk to about this. 4) as soon as we got in I was gonna go first but she went for it and I thought okay but I realised that's not me and swapped round I.e penetration,  she refused to give me oral also,  5) do you think she would lie considering she 'thought' she was getting money?  I know this is a mouthful but I feel the responsible thing to do is to get educated on the subject.  I appreciate all the help if someone could take the time to answer my further questions would be greatly appreciated , I realise anyone answering may not be an expert on Thailand, pattaya (population of 116k and aids being well known to this city?) And one more question I don't think so but what is the chance he/she took condom of then put it on me and I penetrated her would that Change my circumstances,  the condoms where very tight. Many thanks
In Thailand tho if your a local is there really much of a difference?  She had the condoms on her already plus they where in a gold packet dont know if that helps but I feel the subject is best investigation with as much info as possible
There is nothing else to say or get educated on, except note that alderick probably solved your case with his first sentence. Read his post over and over until you relax while waiting to do your test.
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A latex condom offers protected sex concerning HIV.
So if it doesn't break you should have no worries for hiv.
As far as the type of condom used can only be answered by you.
Being they provided and used a condom would seem to reason that this person practices safe sex. Meaning they have concerns that "you" may infect them and are taking no chances.


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Based on lommi answer try to relax. Just to be sure about the condom type I would get a test in a month, but wouldn't spend any time worrying about it other than using a latex condom for anal or vaginal until you get the result.
Iv commented twice including this making it three just so can read I have a little excema/dermatitis it may not be but sometime I scratch and can cause extreme nippyness thankfully at the time wasn't bad can this up the chance of HIV or am i being paranoid and is there any other std/still I should be aware of?
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