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I had protected sex with a csw, what will be the chance of hiv risk

I am a male, 31 years old, circumcised.

On an urge, since staying alone at home for over 4 months went to a csw, which I regretted after.

I have got a durex extra safe condom with me when I went to visit the csw.

I have worn the condom right from the beginning and the csw gave me an oral, followed by in insertive vaginal sex with the csw.
After a brief missionary position we went to a brief doggy style where I ended the session with ejaculation while the condom was intact.

Points of concern:
I have used the same condom for the oral, missionary and doggy without removing and all lasted very briefly. The total time would be less than 10 mins.
Will this reduce the effectiveness of the condom?

I have noticed small amount of blood on the outside of the condom which I think is either beginning or end of her menstrual cycle, hopefully the condom stopped it from touching the penis?

As mentioned the outside of the condom have vaginal fluid along with some blood, while removing the condom, what are the chances of it touching the head of the penis or urethra and if it touched what is the risk?

Kindly help me in this as the anxiety getting more everyday
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (her blood, body etc. when you took the condom off which is not a risk for hiv.) No worries, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the worst that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
Only the head needs protection which the condom supplied, so you should move on from hiv fears. There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. hiv isn't like Covid which infects in the air so you are worrying about the wrong virus.
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Using the same condom for oral and then vaginal is not going to result in your getting HIV.  You still had on protection and were safe.  Unless you have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or share IV drug needles, you will not get HIV.  
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