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I had vaginal sex

Hi

I had vaginal sex with hooker Asian girl in Thailand before a few days.

I was wearing a condom but my penis was not erection during the sex and inside her vagina

After that I put my penis and I used  my hand to put it inside her vagina because it was so weak ( not standing up ).

During the sex I saw half of my penis unprotected because the condom was moving inside her vagina during sex but the head of my penis was covered and protected by condom and i tried to cover my all penis and go on with my relationship.

I got Diarrhea next day and I am so worrying about hiv virus

Am I at risk ??

If the condom moves out during sex but still covered the head of my penis only should I be worry about that ???

Will I be at risk ??

Should I do the HIV test??

If i tried to cover all my penis by same condom during the sex will I be at risk??

Thanks..
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Please seek help in the appropriate forum for anxiety because there's nothing anyone can do for you on the HIV forum. https://www.medhelp.org/forums/Anxiety
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I agree, you must consider therapy at this point. We can't offer you the support you need.  You never had a risk and so, your concern doesn't belong here.
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Hi guys....

I got more hiv symptoms and Itch on my all body.

I am feeling that something like an ant moving under the skin.

Sore throat and pain in the throat always come to me special ones I drink a cool water that didn't come to me before but after this sexual relationship I got many symptoms and gingivitis.

I am feeling that the test will be positive I am really worrying

I am scaring if the condom wasn't enough to save me from HIV virus

The Diarrhea staying with me with many symptoms as I told u before.

I am so confusing and I can't sleep or rest my mind.

Guys I believe the medical researches but a lot things that I got made me crazy because this is first time happened to me.

I got rash on my chest and back.


My relationship was one time and I put my penis inside her only for short time because my penis was weak so it was short relationship

Is there any one that u know did like my relationship and got HIV virus ????


Guy I am worrying if hiv virus test will be positive

Give me some advices please..
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You haven't listened to any of the advice. Reread the advice (instead of explaining your hiv theories because no one here is going to believe them)  and all your questions will be answered.
Seek therapy, to help you understand that it is unrealistic for you to continue to believe in your science fiction theory.
Hi

I just want to make sure that I had zero risk and I had no risk about HIV I want to make sure the HIV test will be negative result and I will be fine ..... I want to rest my mind before do the test...
Seek therapy, to help you understand that it is unrealistic for you to continue to believe in your science fiction theory.
Your problem is not disease, it is fear of disease so it is a bit of a mental illness at this point. This is an hiv prevention forum and we can't provide the one on one that you can get from a therapist.
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Hi guys

I believe and trust the science and hiv virus test

I will try to rest my mind until I be ready for testing

I will do the test after a few coming days I hope the results be negative

I feel that HIV virus already transferred to me because of this relationship because I got all AIDS Symptoms .

This is first time I got these symptoms on my body

I hope to be fine and stop to thinking about HIV forever after get a HIV test.

Thanks.....

I appreciated all what u did.
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1 You don't have any medical research training yet the only science you believe in is your own science fiction theory that you found a new way to get hiv. Your claim that you believe in science is incorrect, since you are only believing your own science fiction.
2 "This is first time I got these symptoms on my body." Disease does not follow a schedule and in fact can occur without warning, so you are mistaken thinking that you have proven something just because you didn't have this before.
3 Doctors can't diagnose from symptoms so you are wasting your time trying to do it, and wasting your time pretending that you can diagnose hiv. Seek therapy, to help you understand that it is unrealistic for you to continue to believe in your science fiction theory.
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Hi guys

The Diarrhea and cough are killed me

I got Itch in my skin on my body and inside my mouth

Guys the condom was moving as I said before and it was covered a half penis

I am worrying if I got HIV virus

I am so tired from thinking

I got all AIDS Symptoms .

I think if I do the test will be positive.
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Obviously it didn't kill you because you're still typing here. You're fine and you need to calm down. As you were already told, you didn't have a risk for HIV and therefore, none of your symptoms are related.

If you're not feeling well then go see a doctor for a diagnosis. But you've already ruled out HIV as a cause since you were never exposed to it and used a condom.
The condom wasn't covering all the the penis and more than that it was moving during the relationship because the penis wasn't standing up enough and the penis was weak

I am worrying if HIV virus goes inside when the penis was weak or the vaginal fluids go inside too

I am going to be crazy I can't stop thinking I can't even sleep.
Your question has been answered already multiple times. You're clearly spiralling down a rabbit hole of anxiety here and the only way to resolve this is to seek out therapy. Once you address your anxiety, you will no longer feel this way. I urge you to start making some calls to find someone to talk to as soon as possible.
Since you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality since you are not a medical researcher. You haven`t listened to any of the advice and instead just keep stating that you only believe in your own science fiction theory. No one here is ever going to believe in your sci-fi theory so there is no purpose in you repeating it over and over trying to find someone who believes it.
Your anxiety is a bit of a mental health issue at this point so see a therapist to deal with it because no one here can deal with that issue. This is an hiv prevention forum but your only issue is mental health.
`I am worrying if HIV virus goes inside when the penis was weak or the vaginal fluids go inside too `That is impossible, since if the condom was that loose that something could pass under the ring that holds it on, then the condom would have fallen off. Your theory does not make sense.
See the only thing that can calm you now is medical science a.k.a hiv test.Stand up and go get one.
Since you don`t believe the science that proves you can`t get hiv from what you did, you likely will not believe the test either since it is also science based.
Your anxiety is a bit of a mental health issue at this point so seek therapy to try to come to grips with the real problem instead of scaring yourself more while waiting for the results of a placebo  test that you likely won`t believe anyway.
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"but the head of my penis was covered and protected by condom" Only the head needs protection so you are safe - this also answers all your 5 questions.
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Thanks for ur replying

What if I had wound on the part which that wasn't covered by condom??

I got Diarrhea and Sore throat too
This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.  
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis
3. sharing needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
Sorry for that but i think u misunderstood me. I meant if that part on my penis which wasn't covered by condom had wounds and go inside her vagina will i be at risk??

I am agreeing with you that the head of my penis was covered by condom but I am taking right now about the part which wasn't protected by condom if this part had wounds and go inside her vagina

Will be at risk??


I tried to cover all my penis by condom but the condom was moving and i am sure that the head of my penis was covered but I'm worrying if I had wound on other part of my penis which wasn't covered.

Is there any risk with all my relationship??

Sorry but I want to rest my mind

I appreciated all what you did for me.
No, it is you that is misunderstanding my comment that only the head needs protection. You are fixating on your science fiction theory that the rest of your penis needs protection too.
Your situation is straightforward. Reread about detail and reread my first advice, because your endless questions are just about your theory, which is unrealistic to believe that can become reality since you do not have medical research training.
That's means I had zero risk and I don't need to do HIV test?
You were suggested that you had no risk. I urge you to read all the responses carefully one more time, instead of repeating your questions.

"3. You had zero risk therefore  testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. "
Hi guys

Sorry but I must to say that for u

I got sick and I had Symptoms of AIDS like fever and and flu and diarrhea with Sore throat.
I don't able to sleep because is that I think I got HIV and my life over .

The Sexual relationship  was in 9/6/2019

I back home in 14/6/2019

Then I slept and I got these symptoms next day until now.

If I did the HIV test will going to be positive?

I am sorry for that but I want my mind rest.

Help me please....
Those are the potential symptoms of many diseases that you can actually have (flu from someone coughing on your lips being the most likely), so do you believe you have all of them too? I am not sure why you have fixated on hiv disease that you can not have, and claim these symptoms of other diseases means that you must have hiv.
You must be very anxious, because you haven't understood any of the advice that was given and keep telling me about your science fiction theory that you got hiv while using a condom - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality since you do not have any medical training. Reread it all because you might just as well test to see if she made you pregnant.
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