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If the condom fall during anal sex, would I know?

I have anal sex with a man, I am the top.I wore the condom when I entered his anus. When we ended sex, I lay down and wiped my body with a towel, then I touched my penis, there was no condom on the penis, and the condom was between my thigh and waist. During the sex and after sex, I didn't feel the condom falling. I think the condom fell when I wiped my body. I was worried that the condom fell during sex,  but I didn't notice it. Does this exist?
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It's likely it happened after you had sex and you were cleaning yourself when your penis wasn't hard anymore.  Condoms don't just fall off usually.  And during sex, only the head of your condom needs to be covered.  I'd say this is not a scenario in which you exposed yourself to HIV.  However, I also wasn't there and ultimately, you have to make the judgement call about what happened.  
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I didn’t feel the condom fell during the sex. When I knew the condom didn’t on my penis ,I began doubt when the condom fall.
It likely fell off when you were flaccid after sex and cleaning yourself but no one here is going to know any better than you who was there . . .right?  It sounds like your mind is wandering with worry and starting to think of worst case scenario.  The condom was likely on during sex and again, only the head has to be covered.  So, I personally would not worry.  
Agreed, if it fell off when you were having sex it would have been inside his anus, and your penis would be soft which can't happen during anal.
I wouldn't worry about it but I wasn't there so you can always take a duo after 4 weeks if still worried. But if you do test don't even worry about it while waiting the 4 weeks because I explained why I think you had no risk.
Thankyou! I do agree with you! I will not worry about it!
I would be worried more about covid, so you should be self isolating for 2 weeks to make sure you don't spread it if you are infected. That forum is https://www.medhelp.org/forums/Coronavirus/show/2203
Thankyou!I will take good care of myself!
Best wishes for you!God bless us!
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