Is insertive oral sex is a high risk activity?

[Zaman_2222]

Hello, I had an unprotected oral sex(insertive) with a girl in a massage centre 2 weeks back. She gave me oral sex for a few time and gave me handjob. After this i got some urinary infection. Iam very scared about this incident. Is there any chances to get hiv in this way? Please answer and guide me.

[GuitarRox]

Hello. Neither of those are risks for HIV. HIV is inactivated by air and saliva. The only risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex or to share IV drug needles. So you don't need to worry or test, you were never exposed.

[Zaman_2222]

Thank you for the answer. But when I googled i hav seen some cases are there infected… Iam very scary and I cannot move on..  pos help me.. how i can out from this… i have cold and fever.. pls help me

[GuitarRox]

I can't help what you google. But this is a moderated forum guided by experts in HIV and it's not a risk for the above stated reasons.

[Zaman_2222]

Is receiving oral sex is risk free compared with other oral activities?

[AnxiousNoMore]

Already answered. There are only 3; not 3 plus others.

[GuitarRox]

You really have asked this now a couple of times and the answer will not change. No idea why you say oral vs other oral activities. But if you please would read the post about what IS a risk and apply that, this would be a lot easier. NOTHING outside of that is a risk. So, nothing oral is a risk for hiv.

[Zaman_2222]

Sorry to ask questions again and again. This because my worries not leaving me. I meant receiving oral sex from a girl is risk free activity compared with giving  oral to someone ? Which one is more risky? My wife is coming by nex day. Can i go with my normal life?

[AnxiousNoMore]

Your anxiety is a bit of a mental health illness at this point, since you haven't understood ANY of the advice. You should see a therapist to deal with this anxiety because no one here on a chat forum can provide the one on one help that you need to get back to a normal life.

[AnxiousNoMore]

I also suggest you stay away from massage centers since you have spent so much time worrying about it afterwards.

[Zaman_2222]

So i can assume iam in safe track and move to normal life. And this is/was the last that i never go to massage centres and related places.