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Is it risky??

Dears,

Last night i had sex with a girl in africa.First i was making vaginal sex until i noticed blood on the condom so i removed the condom and washed.after a while i put another condom and make with her anal sex .then when i was trying to force my penis inside her i heard the sound of condom breakage immediatly i remnoved my penis and rushed to the bathroom to clean but my concern is am not sure if a smal penetration has occured and how much is this risky .please advice i cant concentrate ...
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by mathematician, 4 hours ago
Hiv is not that bad in Africa as people believe, i am born and raise in Africa and in my hole life of 24years only two people were diagonise positive from my community so relax man Africa is not equal to hiv, just wait and take an antibody test at 3month.

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Two-thirds of all people infected with HIV live in sub-Saharan Africa, although this region contains little more than 10% of the world’s population.
During 2008 alone, an estimated 1.4 million adults and children died as a result of AIDS in sub-Saharan Africa. Since the beginning of the epidemic more than 15 million Africans have died from AIDS.

http://www.avert.org/aids-impact-africa.htm

What do you can bad then?
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Hey bokaa, trust me you are not alone in this. My head was explosing after I had sex with a prostitute. Wait after two weeks and get the PCR test. It is done by RNA testing. It is really accurate. You may get your result in 7 days depend when you are. I will pray for you. I don't think you have it though. But next time, remember to get married to a faithful woman and avoid this trouble. I am still waiting for my own result. I am praying. Check tstd.or. Good luck, and God loves you. Think about that.
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Thanks to all.But am confuse sometimes i read posts that HIV is not easy to transmit and it needs a big quantity of the virus in order to infect .and now actually i cant remember if it was just a surface contact or some penetration happened but wt i can remember is that all this happened in 2 sec since i heard the sound of condom breakage untill i went to take bath .Sorry again i dont want to bother anyone but am so stress and nervous am doing my best to avoid STD infections and i dont want this 2 sec to control my life.

Thanks its not anyone fault i just need to calm down i cant ......................
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Hiv is not that bad in Africa as people believe, i am born and raise in Africa and in my hole life of 24years only two people were diagonise positive from my community so relax man Africa is not equal to hiv, just wait and take an antibody test at 3month.
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186166 tn?1385259382
transmission requires PENETRATION.  

if there was no penetration and just "surface contact"...you had no risk.
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1086863 tn?1278630315
good luck.
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Thanks i dont know wt to say a test is a conclusive result and i hope that everything will be ok since i beleive that am at a low risk but not zero risk so i will pray .
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1086863 tn?1278630315
i dont know what to say to you man.
just pray i guess. just stay positive. you can have unprotected sex with a positive partner and still have a 1 in 1000 chance of getting hiv.

i wouldnt play with those odds though
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Hi ,

Since the condom failed so the penis head is not covered .But let me describe more my status i was holding the end of the condom and trying to put it inside her *** the condom failed lets say at the top of her *** and really it was a immediatly when i removed and rushed to the bath. i read several posts that HIV is not transmited on the surface it should be inside its host but for my situation it was a surface contact thats why am asking if there is high risk or not and sorry coz am asking and askiing this is because am in a panic mood and trying to find odds that calm me down .
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1086863 tn?1278630315
look man, if your "penis head" was covered, youre good.
if not. high or low risk still should be tested.

3 months.
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Thanks for your reply .I will make test as you recomended but is a contact with 2 sec is a high risk or it is very low but testing is needed .please advice.
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The only way to know your status is by testing. A 3 month post exposure test will be conclusive.
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1086863 tn?1278630315
as long as nothing got in the urethra you are ok.
stds do not pass through the shaft.
you know how aids is over there...be more careful.
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