HIV possibility after hand job

[kgf3215]

Hi, 20 weeks ago i went a massage parlor and had a handjob. She poured oil on my penis and I put my finger inside her vagina and touched my penis immediately, licked her nipples(not sure whether she is lactating or not). I moved on thinking its not a risk at all and had sex with my partner 13 days after. My wife has been having for past 2 weeks she had a bad rash on her back which looked like hiv rash picture in google and having diaherea , sudden tiredness and so on. Those symptoms made me scared and I had a 10 test panel with hiv 4th gen and HIV RNA tests at 18 weeks and 20 weeks after exposre from 2 diff labs. Both times all the tests came back negative.

Is there still a chance that am infected with HIV and I transmitted to my wife when I had sex with her 13days after my exposure. I am perticualry scare since I touched inside her vagina and touched my penis during my exposure at the parlor.
Are my tests completely consluve at 18 and 20 weeks and I didn't catch any STD, also any chance they are not detectable at 20 weeks but still infect the partner.

[mike_no]

For a complete no risk situation if you decided to take tests, it had to be conclusive because you were never in a window period. Therefore, all your tests were conclusive from day 1.

Your real issue is probably HIV paranoia due to guilt, see a therapist for addressing that.

[Unknown_108]

First - there was no PRACTICAL RISK . hiv is only spread by unprotected vaginal, anal sex and sharing needles.

First testing wasnt necessary. Second even if we assume there was a risk, a 4 th gen test is conclusive at 4 weeks itself. You have a pcr and 4th gen test at 18 weeks, you are definitely hiv negative. No further testing is required.

[kgf3215]

Hi thanks for your response and confirming that 4th gen and RNA is conclusive at 4 weeks. My main was whether there is any chance that it doesn;t get detected by those tests at 18 and 20 weeks