I had a one time encounter. I've been stressing over this for quite some time now and just discovered this site. It was around 2.5 months ago.
The encounter was with a girl I knew through a group of friends.
We both gave and received oral sex.
I anally/vaginally fingered her as well.
I was on the bottom and she climbed over and straddled me rubbing my penis through her vagina. Just the tip, if that, may have entered for maximum of 1 second. She swiped the penis back and forth 2/3 times with a half way flacid penis. Then i just took her off of me.
My question is what is my risk of HIV and should i get tested?
Also I noticed that on my penis, on the excess skin below the head of the penis (foreskin?) theres a small small red spot then if I stretch my skin out its more visible. It looks like there are small veins in the area. I do masturbate with my thumb on the area a lot so I didn't know if this was HIV related or if its possible its vein/capillary related.