Am I expose with the oral?

[nyben]

Hello ,

Hi ,17 days ago I found out that my sex partner was HIV positive , we have been having protected sex for over 2 months before the test but we have oral sex almost all the time.  

we had protected sex the day we went for test , she gave me a blow job and I used condom afterward to have sex with her .

Its been 17 days and I still text negative . I feel pains on my neck but no fever or any other symptom .

Should I be worried

[nyben]

It's been 31day post exposure. .   I ran a test today and it's negative. My exposure was oral sex with an HIV person.  We have been having protected sex since May 2019. Do i need to test again?

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

As you were previously advised, you did not have a risk for HIV; therefore, you did not need to test at all, and you certainly do not need to test again.

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[CurfewX]

You had NO exposure to HIV and you do not need to test.
Condom-protected sex is safe sex, as long as the condom did not VISIBLY break (and you would know for sure if it did).
Oral sex is also safe - no one in the 40+ year history of HIV has ever been infected from receiving oral sex.  You will not be the first.

[nyben]

What about one little lymph node under my jaw ?I had to press and press to locate it though , its painful and its am feeling pain all over my neck to some part of my collar bone

[Chima7]

Your lymph node has nothing to do with it. You caused your own lymph node pain by poking at it. If you leave it alone it will stop hurting.

[CurfewX]

We cannot diagnose the cause of your little lymph node.  We can only tell you that it is NOT related to HIV since you were never exposed to HIV.

[nyben]

Thank you