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I went to an Indian massage parlor around 7 to 8 months ago for the first time and then I visited there after around 20 days. The person I met there for the first time belonged to an area where the cases are found to be most.

1.In the first encounter, after massaging she offered me a handjob and gave me a bare handed handjob while she was naked from the top. While massaging, I suppose, she touched all my private parts too. While she was naked from the top, I sucked her boobs . Perhaps, I was sucking her boobs harder which was causing a pain for her. She asked me to do that slowly. Simultaneously, handjob was going on and she was touching my penis tip too with her fingers and I ejaculated on her hands.

I don't know whether she was lactating or not. I couldn't even remember whether there were cuts, wounds or any sores on her hands and breasts too. Or I couldn't even see that time that  biting of her breast created a wound on her or not.

The towel and the transparent pant they gave to wear was also wet perhaps.

2. In the second encounter, the girl was wearing just her bra and panty but her panty was little wet and she was sitting on my naked penis and I was wet too.. This time also, I found the under garments provided by them to be wet.

Went through a long common cold and sore throat and diarrhea occasionally after that. Sometimes a long fever too.

So, what do you infer from these encounters ? Kindly inform according to the recent statistics of India as well as scientifically. Kindly suggest me considering the extreme cases.

Thank you in advance.
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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (mouth, saliva, clothes, hands, body, lactation etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Note that 2 of them require a penis and the third requires a hollow injecting shared needle - there are no OTHER ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
Hiv is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
You can't have hiv so your test was a waste of time.
hiv doesn't bore into your skin so it is time to stop wondering about taking a purposeless test  -  as was explained above by GR.
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You likely got a cold, or Covid etc but it sure wasn't hiv.
Thanks for your valuable information
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Were you advised about this here previously?
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No , I just found this website recently and joined this forum today.
Your post is very familiar. Was curious if we'd spoken before. Risks for HIV are to have unprotected vaginal or anal sex with penetration and to share IV needles to inject drugs. Nothing you mention is a risk. You don't get HIV in ANY of those ways. Air and saliva inactivate the virus.
Actually, I couldn't even remember whether there were woulds in my mouth or on my penis too. So, what do you recommend ? Should I go for a test or not considering the extreme ?
It doesn't matter. It doesn't change the answer. NO RISK.
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