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To all member in this forum, sorry for my bad english.
I am male (24) from south east asia, i made a stupid thing, i have making love with prostitute on 10 june 2019. Im so scared,
1st. get unprotect felatio about 30second, then after my penis geting hard, the CSW apply condom on my penis, i remember the condom is (dur*x extra safe). My concern is, this is my first time having sex with real partner, yes i was virgin before.. so i think the condom size is too big for my because i realized my penis is relatively small. I think the diameter if condom is too big, but the condom cover my penis until the base.
2nd. I penetrate to vagina using the condom. And because its my first time having sex, i can only last for 5 minute. Beacuse i feel shy, i didnt immediately pull my penis from her vagina. I even pushed my penis several times when my penis was weak.
3rd. After that i pull my penis slowly from her vagina, while my hand hold the condom. After that, i masturbating my penis with condom still on my penis.
4th. After i get masturbate, and my penis wont getting hard, i remove the condom from my penis. And after that, i get felatio again about 5 minute without condom..
I want to ask.
1. Can i get HIV from using a wrong size condom? I scared it didnt protecting me from vaginal fluid
2. Im scared because i didnt immediately pull my penis, i even push several time again. the vaginal fluide can enter through the gap of diameter condom and diameter my penis.
3. Im scared too vaginal fluide enter my penis bacause i masturbating while still using the same condom.
4. Can i get hiv from geting felatio, i dont know the condition of her mouth. I scare she have sore or something.
A day after making love with prostitute i feel guilty and stress.. one week after that i get little flu and headache. And until now my throat feel unwell i dont know it is glabus sensation or something. Please help im scared to get infected and I am afraid to do an HIV test.
Once again sorry for my bad english
I am male (24) from south east asia, i made a stupid thing, i have making love with prostitute on 10 june 2019. Im so scared,
1st. get unprotect felatio about 30second, then after my penis geting hard, the CSW apply condom on my penis, i remember the condom is (dur*x extra safe). My concern is, this is my first time having sex with real partner, yes i was virgin before.. so i think the condom size is too big for my because i realized my penis is relatively small. I think the diameter if condom is too big, but the condom cover my penis until the base.
2nd. I penetrate to vagina using the condom. And because its my first time having sex, i can only last for 5 minute. Beacuse i feel shy, i didnt immediately pull my penis from her vagina. I even pushed my penis several times when my penis was weak.
3rd. After that i pull my penis slowly from her vagina, while my hand hold the condom. After that, i masturbating my penis with condom still on my penis.
4th. After i get masturbate, and my penis wont getting hard, i remove the condom from my penis. And after that, i get felatio again about 5 minute without condom..
I want to ask.
1. Can i get HIV from using a wrong size condom? I scared it didnt protecting me from vaginal fluid
2. Im scared because i didnt immediately pull my penis, i even push several time again. the vaginal fluide can enter through the gap of diameter condom and diameter my penis.
3. Im scared too vaginal fluide enter my penis bacause i masturbating while still using the same condom.
4. Can i get hiv from geting felatio, i dont know the condition of her mouth. I scare she have sore or something.
A day after making love with prostitute i feel guilty and stress.. one week after that i get little flu and headache. And until now my throat feel unwell i dont know it is glabus sensation or something. Please help im scared to get infected and I am afraid to do an HIV test.
Once again sorry for my bad english
This answers all of your HIV questions, and if you can think of any more just reread about the 3. You had zero risk therefore testing is irrelevant to your situation because you had zero risk. HIV is a fragile virus, which is instantly inactivated in air and also in saliva which means it is effectively dead so it can't infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. It doesn't matter if you and they were actively bleeding or had cuts at the time either because the HIV is effectively dead.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk.
3. sharing hollow needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
Only the head of your penis needs protection, and that happened otherwise if it was too loose it would have fallen off.
Likely your symptoms are in your imagination or else someone with flu coughed on you and the virus gave you a flu.
Only 3 adult risks are the following:
1. unprotected penetrating vaginal with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk
2. unprotected penetrating anal sex with a penis. Only the head needs to be covered, so if that happened it is protected and there is zero risk.
3. sharing hollow needles that you inject with.
The only way to get HIV is if you did one of the 3. The situation you describe is a long way from any of these 3.
Even with blood, lactation, cuts, rashes, burns, etc the air or the saliva does not allow inactivated virus to infect from touching, external rubbing or oral activities. This HIV science is 40 years old and very well established, so no detail that you can add to your encounter will change it from zero risk. Because of all the research statistics, doctors have calculated the risk from what you describe to be less than that of being hit by a meteor, therefore no one will get HIV from what you did in the next 40 years of your life either.
If you didn't have one of the 3 then you are just worrying about your own hiv theory - which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality - so you should move on back to your happy life instead.
Only the head of your penis needs protection, and that happened otherwise if it was too loose it would have fallen off.
Likely your symptoms are in your imagination or else someone with flu coughed on you and the virus gave you a flu.
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Sorry sir, i want ask. what if vaginal fluid enters my penis through a gap in my condom when my penis was weak after ejaculation?
Impossible for fluid to enter because of the ring at the bottom. "it was that loose it would have fallen off. "
Sorry, i want to ask again sir. How if i careless when i remove the condom from my penis, if the head of penis touching vaginal fluid at the ring condom. Can i get HIV from this scenario?
Let's make this simple since there are only 3 risks. Which of the 3 do you feel was your risk? If none, then you are just worrying about your own science fiction theory, which is unrealistic for you to think that can become reality.
Should i take an HIV Test? Seriously, im still stress until now. Im afraid i careless when i remove the condom from my penis...
My last question, how long hiv virus can survive outsid the body?
My last question, how long hiv virus can survive outsid the body?
You had NO RISK. You do not need any tests.
No one has been infected in this manner, and you will not be the first. The question about survival outside of the body is not relevant, as no one has ever been infected by fluid outside of the body. You will not be the first.
Please move on from this event. There is nothing more we can say. You do not have HIV.
No one has been infected in this manner, and you will not be the first. The question about survival outside of the body is not relevant, as no one has ever been infected by fluid outside of the body. You will not be the first.
Please move on from this event. There is nothing more we can say. You do not have HIV.
Let's make this simple since there are only 3 risks. Which of the 3 do you feel was your risk? Your questions are repetitive and irrelevant and since there are only 3 risks you need to answer my question because as Curfew said, no one got infected any other way.
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