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Hi. This is my scenario:
In the last week, i met a divorced woman online and we saw each other in my car. After a while i put my right hand into her trousers and under her underwear towards her vaguna. I rubbed her clit and moved my fingers to her vagina hole. I dont remember if i inserted my finger inside her vagina ir not, later she told me it didnt go inside but im not sure. She was very wet. She wasnt on her period as she said. But she told me its close to her period time. My finger tips got wer by vagunal secretions. After 2 minutes i took of my hand from her pants. She grabbed my fingers for a while for kidding purpose so im sure the vaginsl juice also tiuched her hand for sure of course outside her trousers. After 2 to 3 minutes she unzipped my trousers and started masturbate me until i came. My concerns:
1 is it a risk regard that if i inserted my finger inside her vagina and also her clit. For sure i had some 1 to 3mm deep hangnail/cut belonged to 1-2 days before which not bleeding at the moment.
2 is there a risk that she madturbated my penis while vaginal fluid on her gands? She rubbed also my penis head for a short time. But i remember her hands were not wet coz the fluid got somewhat dried before she rubbed my penis.
Thanks.
In the last week, i met a divorced woman online and we saw each other in my car. After a while i put my right hand into her trousers and under her underwear towards her vaguna. I rubbed her clit and moved my fingers to her vagina hole. I dont remember if i inserted my finger inside her vagina ir not, later she told me it didnt go inside but im not sure. She was very wet. She wasnt on her period as she said. But she told me its close to her period time. My finger tips got wer by vagunal secretions. After 2 minutes i took of my hand from her pants. She grabbed my fingers for a while for kidding purpose so im sure the vaginsl juice also tiuched her hand for sure of course outside her trousers. After 2 to 3 minutes she unzipped my trousers and started masturbate me until i came. My concerns:
1 is it a risk regard that if i inserted my finger inside her vagina and also her clit. For sure i had some 1 to 3mm deep hangnail/cut belonged to 1-2 days before which not bleeding at the moment.
2 is there a risk that she madturbated my penis while vaginal fluid on her gands? She rubbed also my penis head for a short time. But i remember her hands were not wet coz the fluid got somewhat dried before she rubbed my penis.
Thanks.
Thanks for reassurances. Any more advices? Especially that i have wife and child. Will not do that again.
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Thanks. But: Even if we suppose i had small bleeding wound near my finger nail ( not sure about bleeding), and even if she touched my urethra opening? ( sure she had vaginal fluid in her hands although Not very wet hands when rubbing my penis) still no risk?
As im Not so fluent in english. So you mean "No Risk". Right?
"Since you definitely didn't do any of those things, you had zero risk, which obviously means there is no reason to test."
Thanks.
HIV is not spread outside the body. Touching someone is not a risk. The only risks for an adult are unprotected anal or vaginal sex and sharing drug needles with infected users. Since you definitely didn't do any of those things, you had zero risk, which obviously means there is no reason to test.
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