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You've already been advised you had no risk for HIV. NOTHING you wrote is a risk and therefore, you can NOT get HIV or HAVE hiv. So, lymph nodes, aches pains or anything else going on is NOT due to HIV.
Risks for HIV:
unprotected vaginal sex, unprotected anal sex and sharing IV drug needles. That's it. No risk
Sorry the first sentence should have been this. Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air ( lips, mouth, oral sex, kissing etc.).
4. The only risk is if the vaginal involved unprotected. Only the head needs protection for you to be safe. What do you mean by condom "slipped"? Did you mean it was still on you but slipped a little bit up the shaft?