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New in this site, very worried, my condom broke.

Please i need an answer, dont know what to do. Well im a 18 yr old college student. last week end i went to party with some friends to Mexico. their we decided to find some girls. We did but they were prostitutes, i had never done this but we pay them to have sex with us. I was super nervous since the beggining, but also stupid. The girl i was with said she was 19. but look younger then me or that age. She started giving me oral with a condom then we started having intercourse. she was really dry so when i put my penis inside, the condom broke i imediately pull out. i freak out. but she pulled out right away when she felt it too. i ask if she had anything she said no that the local gov makes them test monthly. i was freakout. so i told here i had Chlamydia to see if she would freakout she did. she told me what was that so i kind of made it up, cause i really dont know the symptoms i told here i was taking anti biotics and that it would go away with that. I really dont have anything, but im worry that i do now. What are my chances of getting HIV or any STD? i really hope i didnt get HIV, i dont wanna die im still a kid i think. and also i dont know if i should tell my girlfriend. im just not having sex with here. PLEASE HELP! i havent tell anyone and i need some answers, what are my chances?
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720609 tn?1328779596
Test at 6-8 weeks for a more reliable result.  12 weeks conclusive.
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thanks for the reply. one question is their a test that i can take earlier then 3 months for hiv? wish me luck, my dad was diagnose with cancer and its been really hard for the family. i dont wanna be another problem, i already feel like i let them down. thanks guys.
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The chances of conrtacting are low, but still a risk. HIV is treatable, you can live an average life span on meds. Still get a test done.
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thanks for the answers. i know i took a risk. so are my chances of contracting HIV high or low or maybe really low? just need an answer for that please. also im not circumcise i dont know if that affects my chances, and the reason my condom broke was because she was really dry. when my penis went in like 2 inches, it snap and we both imidiately pull out, after that i wash my self with alot of soap, i dont think that would help but i was freakout. thanks for your answers. i guess im just another stupid 18 yr old that is not gonna get to see 30, im like super scared of that. i guess getting a 4.0 in first yr of college doesnt mean anything when your making stupid decisions in real life.
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652407 tn?1300737199
a risk is a risk, although you realize your mistake you can't change things and the only reason you need to tell your GF is if you plan on having sex with her therefore putting her at risk...

When you do get tested for HIV you might as well get a full STD panel to ensure you didn't get anything else.
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do you think, i was in a high risk? what are my chances of getting it? should i tell my parents or girlfriend, i dont know what to do, i just wish i can reverse time. how was i so stupid! please help
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You test. Three months post exposure is when you can obtain a conclusive negative test result. You need to lean how to use a condom correctly.
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