Hi all
Mid January I, a man, had oral and protected vaginal sex with a woman I met on Tinder. Se was a thirty-year old woman, good job, no payingfor her, already a kid. We met two nights in a row.
I performed unprotected oral on her and she on me. I am worried about performing oral on her because I had a blister on my lips that turned out to be a cold sore. I know thay because few days later I had a second, bigger one next to it. The blister might have been a little wound. Very small but it was there, in contact with her vaginal fluids. No blood.
Except for the part that I feel guilty that I might have given her hsv1, Im worried for myself too. If she might have been hiv positive could she have past it on to me via the cold sore?
Being one month after I had a mild sore throat last week and got some diahrrea. That is over now. Now I have some mild temperature about 37,5 to 38 Celsius( 98 - 100.4 fahrenheit I guess). I feel a bit dizzy and have one swollen lymph node in my neck. Small one. This all could also be due to my very bad dry cough I have at the moment. It gives me chest aches, feels little like a light Bronchitis.
No rash or other symptoms.
Should I get tested?
E