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6399743 tn?1380953713

HIV Dilemma.

Hi there, I'm Anz from the Philippines and I got 4 question.

Most of the time, I practice safe sex. But when it comes oral sex. I really don't.

1st question

Does sucking my dick or doing a fellatio on me have a risk? I don't have any visible sore on it?

2nd question

I have a mild problem with my gums, I got gingivitis. Knowing that I only used the tip of my tongue, stick it out to lick her labia. But I didn't totally insert. Is it HIV risk?

3rd question. 3 weeks ago, I hired an escort. I was so aroused not thinking clear. I rub the head of my penis in her labia but did not totally insert it. I still got infected with gonorrhea because I also rub it in her pubic hair above her vagina. Can I also contract HIV through it?

My last question. The condom broke, had a half inch slit or cut on the side of it but not totally burst because we noticed it in just a few seconds. Above the head of my penis. Is there a risk of having HIV?
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480448 tn?1426948538
Gonorrhea and HIV are like apples and oranges, TOTALLY different in terms of transmission, organism responsible for infection, etc.  You cannot compare the two in any way.  

You never had a risk for HIV as long as the HEAD of your penis was covered during the insertive sex (even after it broke).  If you're overly concerned, you can test at 3 months post exposure, but testing is not necessary.
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6399743 tn?1380953713
The head is still protected when it had a cut on the side or shaft. Is it possiible that I contracted the gonorrhea by just rubbing my penis head on her pubic hair or labia when I was not still wearing the condom? Thanks
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I am not a doctor. Nor am I a frequent forumer. It is very difficult to point out which incident really caused the infection. Let's hope raj93's assessment is right.

I do not know what other members think. In my opinion, the way forward is to get tested after 3 months.
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5870831 tn?1376197049
Now if the head was not protected then go and get tested.


Gonnorhea and all other stds are much more easier to acquire than hiv.


Get tested if the condom was broke  on the head.
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6399743 tn?1380953713
Sorry for the mistake, it's below the head. The cut is in the side of it. Thanks
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6399743 tn?1380953713
Follow up on the 4th question but why I contracted gonorrhea if the head of the penis is still protected? Thanks for you response
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6399743 tn?1380953713
That the same girl that I contracted the gonorrhea, I rub the head of my penis in her labia and the upper part of her vagina that has pubic hair on it. But after that I put a condom on it. And then while I was humping her we felt it broke so I pulled my penis off to the condom.
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Could you clarify your last scenario? Did it happen together with the third scenario?
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5870831 tn?1376197049
Your answers

1.No

2.No

3.rubbing is not a risk unprotected penetration is a risk.

4.as long as the head of your penis was covered you are at no risk for hiv.
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