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im 25 and should know better i slept with someone 10 days ago on saturday early morning. we had protected sex as far as i new...  he did put a condom on i even checked. no oral sex just kissing.
coming up tuesday (3 days later)  i started to get bad stomach cramps ( and my period is not due till the begingin of january so its to far away ) on wednesday i started to get bad constupation nipple pain and flu like symtoms. i thought i got pragnant or something. on friday i started to get very bad discharge of vaginal area. this money i went to ER took pragancy test and some some other test. Gonoreah test came back positive. i dont understand how thats posible since we used protection. anyway i took the meds yesturday but flue like symtoms are not going away still having cold sweat and hot flashes and sweat that started 5-6 days after sex. im so scared i got HIV!  yesturday i went to ge HIV its should be done tomorrow. super scared before this guy i havent slept with anyone close to a yea. super scared that the flu like symtoms are first signs of HIV .please help i need some adtvice. im freaking out! cant stop crying my face is all red and dry i think its from crying and wiping tears but im not sure. if i got gonoreah the protection didnt work so...  i know that even if i get negative tomorrow that dosent mean that i dont have it. i need to wait 3 months. + my symtoms of flu started 5 days after sex is that to early for HIV symtoms? Please help
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Move along you don't have an HIV concern.
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Well I'm trying to go to wrong place. But I'm having HIV early symtomas.. My questions are not about gonoreah if the protection worked I wouldn't have gonoreah problem. That means HiV is a possibility. I'm having flu like symtoms for past 5 days I'm just really concerned cuz people get the symptoms 2-4 weeks after infection. So I'm wondering maybe I'm getting them early or something ... Anyway could someone answer maybe I'm wrong for how long does it take to symtoms to show up?  
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You never had an HIV risk--forget about having a test because you don't require one.
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No that does not mean that protection didn't work. You don't have an HIV concern. You'll need to post your STD questions in the STD forum.
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But I got gonoreah from him dosent that mean the protection didn't work? + the flu like symptoms? And would it be to early for them to be signs or hiv 5 days after sex? It's been going for past 5 days. Thanks
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You never had an exposure.
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