Protected Sex Risks

[Sammy_San]

Hello,

I am very much worried and anxious, 3 weeks ago i had protected sex with someone i met over internet. She was not CSW and she had nothing on her, at least that is what she told me, I used condom and it was intact throughout the vaginal penetration phase.
My concern is about risk of transmission in my scenario with following activities
1.protected vaginal sex
2.sucking breasts
3. deep kissing
4. fingering her vagina

From 1- 3 weeks i m having following symptoms

1. Viral infection , flu , fever & cough with mucus
2. slight pain under my neck portion
3. slight pain under my both armpits, muscle point i think , no lymph node swelling which i verified
4.Small pimple under my ear , more like a rash type

I am very much worried and i am unable to focus on anything , i will need some help for assessing my situation.

Thanks,
Sammy

[stressedoutgirl_]

I understand your fear, a few months back I had protected sex with a guy that was hiv+. I am still hoping to this day that it wasn’t the biggest mistake of my life. But if the condom was intact you should be fine. Also, it is winter so sickness could be common. As for the other ways your worried of transmission, those wouldn’t have any effect on you getting it.

[AnxiousNoMore]

stressedoutgirl your fear has nothing to do with Sammy's situation. Neither of you had a HIV risk therefore it is not any mistake in your life - so you shouldn't be advising others who also had no risk that it might be the biggest of anyone's life.

[Chima7]

Nothing you described is a risk for HIV. You have nothing to be concerned about and there's no exposure to test for in your story.

[Sammy_San]

Thanks for your response but how can you be so sure like there is so much stats over internet and its never reassuring. I have read that all activities i indulged in carry some level of risk. Please enlighten me further

[AnxiousNoMore]

This  is not a biology class for people who want to be a google doctor. We rely on the opinion of expert doctors and you got all the info you need to move on.
You don't have any medical training so you are wasting your time googling everywhere for death and having so much confidence in your ability to diagnose HIV.
People cough on your lips and door knobs so flu should be expected at any time, instead of your unscientific idea being to deny that you can ever get it unless you have HIV. The rest of your symptom claims are so minor they aren't even worth discussing.

[biology2017]

Your exposure have virtually no risk, assuming that the condom is intact.
Symptoms are not used to diagnose hiv.
Some symptoms dont sound like ars.
Go see a doctor for ur symptoms