Protected Sex with vaginal fluid. HIV/HSV Transmission Risk. Worried!

[Karmalogy]

Hello, I had an encounter less than two days back which I'm worried over. It was an encounter of protected sex, fingering and naked body foreplay (No condom). No kissing. It was with a SW.

I had sex about twice in an hour which was protected and fingered her in between both times. Before intercourse there was foreplay where i was kissing the upper body and rubbing my unprotected penis on her buttocks/waist. Not near the vagina. There was no french kissing.

My concern is about the vaginal fluid that was on to my genitals. The first time, I felt some wetness on the condom when I withdrew in between and was masturbating. I thought it was fluid and continued masturbating. Also fingered her till she sort of ejaculated. I got some fluid on to my fingers I remember.

Second time, i put on a new condom and ejaculated after about 5 mins of sex, after which I noticed some fluid on my pubic area. She said she sort of ejaculated.

Now within these two times there were instances where i removed my penis and put it back in, probably with some fluid on and around the penis. I'm really worried about it. Could this lead to HIV transmission? Like the fluid slipping in through the condom? It was that much but even a small amount? Is there a possibility like that?

I know I am at risk for HSV, Syphilis, Chlamydia over other diseases but what are my chances? I read through the posts that it takes up to 20 days for herpes or syphilis to show. I will get tested for all stds in the next few weeks. But how likely am I when there wasn't an active outbreak?

Today I had some burning around my anus and it hurts when I touch there. Is this an indication of hsv or some digestion issue. I did have spicy food in the last few days.

For the SW, I had been to her before where I did not have sex but asked her if she gets tested? She showed a test report where she was HIV-Negative last July. I don't know after that. She did not have an outbreak during the intercourse.

I'm sorry for the way i'm posting the encounter. Just trying to inform on everything I remember. I was a bit high at the time which is again very stupid. It's all risky. What are my chances of transmission of hsv or hiv?

Thank you so much

[GuitarRox]

CSW's and you know she uses condoms regularly as she did with you do not want hiv or std's.  The condom you used wasn't just to protect you but her as well.  Keep that in mind. Your encounter was zero risk for HIV.  Protected sex is not a risk nor is fingering or rubbing.  Just touching body fluid will not transmit the virus as air inactivates it.  Therefore, the only risks for HIV include UNprotected sex --  vaginal or anal penetrating intercourse or sharing IV drug needles.  Those are the only ways adults get HIV.  That you used protection is great.  Keep doing that and you will not need to ever worry about HIV.  Even if fluid is on the lower part of your shaft or testicles.  Only the head of your penis needs to be covered to protect yourself.  

Herpes risk is also greatly reduced by wearing a condom.  Fingering her doesn't post a risk to you.  skin contact in areas that are not covered by a condom would be the risk, however, in the absence of any symptoms on yourself, I wouldn't worry.  If you do develop a sore or blister, then I'd go straight to the doctor and get it swabbed. Not having an active outbreak is a good sign but Herpes can still shed without that so she could still transmit it.  However, again, your usage of a condom really minimized that.