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Protected oral sex and Handjob with Ladyboy (Possibly HIV positive)

Hi all, back again. Im freaking out. I picked up a ladyboy from the streets of bangkok (didnt know till we were in the room) and she gave me a handjob and protected oral sex. I checked the condom and it was intact. I tested the condom wif water it was fine. WE DID NOT HAVE ANY FORM OF SEX AS SHE DID NOT TAKE OFF HER CLOTHING. Now im regretting this stupid decision as she is a ladyboy. Forgive me if im wrong and i dont mean to insult anyone at all but from my understanding, ladyboys/trannys/shemales have a higher HIV rate, hence im kinda uneasy now. Pls reply my post. Thank you
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You are not at a risk from this event.

Below enlisted are only risk for HIV transmission in adults:

1. Unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse

2. Sharing needles with people who inject drugs.

If you always worried about HIV from non risky events, please see a counselor.

Testing isn't necessary.
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Thank you for ur reply. As the room is dark i felt a stingy pain on my thigh. First thought is probably her fingernails. However im starting to think crazy. Could it be that she could have injected an infected drug IV needle onto my thigh? Is such a thinking absurd? I mean i didnt c any needles or sryinges but my eyes were closed most of the time. Help!
You're being paranoid. Whether it's guilt or shame or something else causing you to overreact is the reason for all of this irrational thinking. You need to address this with a therapist to get through this mental problem or else you will never be able to move on. Instead of wasting your time online searching for HIV, you should be searching for a therapist to visit as soon as possible, preferably tomorrow.
Yea i have a mental illness. A phobia. I went back to find the ladyboy and he says that he doesnt use IV drugs or drugs at all. He also says that if he took out a needle and jab me i probably would have known immediately. Thanks for the replies
And truth be told i prolly feel shame and guilt as she was a ladyboy
Well, the only person judging you right now is yourself. And the only real help you can get for this type of mental problem is from a therapist. I think you need to find one as soon as possible to start working on ways to move on from this.
Thanks! Whatever im insinuating or conjuring (the IV needle jab) is absurd right? Like i am a university law student. I probably wouldnt have missed a needle jab huh?
It is not logical to think in that direction. We have already made our point that you were never at a risk from this event.

You need to accept things for the way they are and consider seeking help for your obsession, your problem is not HIV, your answers are not here, only a professional can help you to overcome issues that dwell inside of your mind.

If this helps you, even if you were pricked with a needle, there is no risk that can be associated, since it is not an exposure, even occupational needle stick accidents are calculated at 0.2% possibility of transmission. Practically, it is not a risk.

I want to reiterate, please see a therapist, your problem is not HIV.
Thank you guys. Its amazing how helpful you guys are towards strangers. Thank you thank you and thank you
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