10 days ago on a moment of weakness I visited this female escort for sexual relief and she preformed prostate massage on me witch was all I asked and suddenly and without consent she proceeded to lick my anus and shove her thong inside for maybe 15 or 30 seconds until I told her to stop. I have been extremely worried I have contracted stds or hiv from this exposure. I cant sleep at night married with 2 kids made a horrible mistake and don't want to pass anything on to my wife. how soon show I get tested for hiv and stds? i have no symptoms as of yet but i understand that doest mean anything. please help.