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Received unprotected oral blowjob and lip kiss

I’m a married i committed a biggest sin my life that I received unprotected oral blowjob for 1minute and had lip kiss (not French kiss)from protitute girl she’s educated ...I told to open her mouth I saw no bleeding gums were found even there is no open sores..
what in case she have any inflammation or mild ulcer that cannot be seen me!! her teeth is yellowish and she told for every three months she get tested I saw all her reports including hiv p24 antigen and antibody ,hiv Elisa test and some regular health checkups all reports are negative & fine but these reports are before 3.5 months back..what incase she turned positive currently!! I consulted total 5 doctors in this 2 doctors said no need to worry but 3 doctors suggested pep that I’m in risk if blood has transferred with saliva I will get hiv!! started pep within 43 hrs!! I’m unable to face my wife in doing this sin!! what are my risks if some blood mixed with her saliva can transmit me hiv through my pennis mucous!! I’m struggling a lot to wait for 3 months completion test!!!
Crying every night can pep really helps me?? I’m worrying about hep b & hep c also!!! I’m in a kids planning stage did this mistake can’t even face my wife even I’m avoiding her to kiss also!!! Please help me some medical experts over here!!! Even in quora also saying this situation is risky
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Hi. First of all, you'll need to calm down. You're in luck that receiving oral sex is not a risk for HIV. Neither is kissing. This is true even if there was any blood in her saliva, which by the way is an irrational concern in itself. To recap, in the history of HIV, no one has ever been infected by receiving oral sex or by kissing, and you won't be the first. No PEP or testing is necessary because you were never exposed.

As to your extreme guilt over what you did, we cannot help you there. However, you should consider seeing a therapist to discuss your anxiety.
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As explained previously to you and above by Chima, kissing and oral sex, receiving BJ's is not a risk for HIV.  Saliva inactivates the virus.  The only risks are unprotected and penetrating vaginal or anal sex or sharing IV drug needles.  That is IT. Taking PEP would put your body through a lot of difficulty as it is a toxic drug.  Guilt is a powerful thing and I'm sorry you are feeling badly.  I agree that talking to a counselor to work through it may help you get back to normal.  Is that something you can do?  Confess here.  Go to the Relationships forum. They'll talk about guilt with you.  But HIV is not something you need to worry about.
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https://www.medhelp.org/forums/Relationships/show/78  Go there, they will talk about guilt and your relationship with your partner.  
I’m taking ur response in a postive way but I’m waiting to here from doctors suggestion what they will conclude me !! That I can plan for kids in this situation??
I already replied to you yesterday to tell you that you had no risk for HIV.
Hi chima7 please don’t mind I’m having confusion who’s responding here doctors or normal people!! because I’m new in medhelp that is the reason I’m anxious...if I take doctors response in here I can move happily with my wife !!
There are no doctors posting here. There are volunteers who provide guidance on HIV risk assessment and testing based on the same guidance that was and still is provided by the HIV specialist doctors who used to post here.

This is a moderated forum and any answers that are not in line with HIV expert guidance is promptly deleted by the moderators, therefore your question has been answered thoroughly by myself and the other volunteers in line with the recommended guidance.
Hey, I am passing through the same doubt, how do I post my question ?
If you have the same question then the answer is the same. The answer is not going to change just because someone else is asking it.
20620809 tn?1504362969
Yes.  This forum is moderated and they remove inaccurate responses.  MedHelp has had the best expert doctors guide the responses based on current science and you can trust you had no risk.  
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