Oral sex is not a risk for HIV. HIV is only transmitted by having unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse or sharing IV drug needles. Air and saliva inactivate the virus. So, yes, move on without fear. No risk.
After I had sex with my wife now she had some white pimples on her vegina doctor said test for hiv and syphills may I expose hiv ?
I am very much fearing
We have already stated quite clearly that you can not get HIV from the exposure you describe here. Oral sex is not a risk. Never has been, never will be. NO ONE in the history of HIV has gotten it from oral sex. Not a single, proven or documented case. You won't be the first. HIV is only transmitted from unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse or sharing IV drug needles. There is nothing more we can say. Saliva and air inactivate the virus. So, your wife's issues are not due to this exposure you write of, HIV. I sincerely doubt ANY educated doctor would tell her to test for HIV because of white pimples on her vagina.