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Risk Assessment please help

I received an unprotected blowjob from a transwoman about a week ago. I dont know her HIV status, but she sent me a negative test from March 2022.

Am I at risk for getting HIV from this blowjob? I feel sick and run down, and weird little pains all over my body. I have no idea if this is anxiety or if I have been infected.

We did nothing except her giving me a blowjob and then i Came in her mouth.

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Your situation involves personal contact with an object in air  (lips,   etc. ). You will be happy to learn that you had no risk, because you can't get hiv from personal contact except unprotected penetrating vaginal or anal with a penis, neither of which you did and you didn't share hollow needles to inject with which is the only other way to acquire hiv - there are ONLY 3 ways to get hiv. Analysis of large numbers of infected people over the 40 years of hiv history has proven that people don't get hiv in the way you are worried is a risk.
HIV is a fragile virus in air or saliva and is effectively instantly dead in either air or saliva so the WORST that could happen is dead virus rubbed you, and obviously anything which is dead cannot live again so you are good. Blood and cuts would not be relevant in your situation since the hiv has become effectively dead, so you don't have to worry about them to be sure that you are safe.
There is no reason for a person to test when they are safe. The advice took into consideration that the other person might be positive, so move on and enjoy life instead of thinking about this non-event. hiv prevention is straightforward since there are only 3 ways you can become infected, so next time you wonder if you had a risk, ask yourself this QUESTION. "Did I do any of the 3?" Then after you say "No, I didn't" you will know that it's time to move on back to your happy life.
No one got hiv from what you did during 40 years of hiv history and no one will get it in the next 40 years of your life either.  You can do what you did any time and be safe from hiv.
The other person's status is irrelevant when you have no exposure to live virus.
If you got anything it sure isn't hiv. Covid, would be a high possibility.
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When you have unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse you are susceptible to HIV through your urethra. So if I am having unprotected oral, saliva can make it's way into my urethra. How is there no risk?
Reread about instantly and 40.
So there is no reason to specifically test for HIV due to this one occurence?
You must be very anxious so do yourself a favor and reread all the advice since that question was answered a few times.
i feel like my throat is sore and im run down, plus tired and everything. its not covid cause i took a test. worried about ARS
You have latched onto the only disease you can think of and despite having no medical training you have ignored 40 years of hiv research in favor ideas that you are developing about hiv transmission. It is unfortunate that you have so much confidence in your ideas - in reality you should have no confidence in your ability to detect disease or understand hiv transmission.  
If you have a sore throat you will know it. "I feel like my throat is sore etc." I have no idea if you actually have ANY thing wrong, but your statement suggests your symptoms could be in your head - best to see doc instead of thinking you can diagnose.
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